Does Loving Two People Mean Your Not Really In Love?

vampireknight3041 · Sep 22, 2006, 05:57 PM

I've heard from people that if you feel that you love two people, you actually aren't in love with either one. I do not believe in that. Can anybody tell me if it's true or false?

*Violent* · Sep 22, 2006, 06:17 PM

Bah thats not love thats lust... -_-;

*Mr. K* · Sep 22, 2006, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Violent

Bah thats not love thats lust... -_-;

Brilliant

Sounds like a lil lustful ways to me~

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Lust is any intense desire or craving, usually sexual, although it is also common to speak of a "lust for life", "lust for blood (bloodlust for short)", or a "lust for power" or other goals.

As a sexual term, lust implies a sexual desire in and of itself, an erotic arousal and wish, or intense physical or sexual attraction or craving. In this sense, it is considered a vice by Christianity, and is listed as one of the seven deadly sins of Catholicism and its related denominations. Kam, a concept in Sikhism often translated as lust, is similarly included as one of the Five Evils. The Greek word which translates as lust is επιθυμια (epithumia), which also is translated as covet.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lust

There Your info ~

Chubz · Sep 22, 2006, 06:34 PM

Lust is when you have a strong sexual desire for someone.

As for your question, love is a pretty wide term. Like...you 'love' your family, but it's not the same type of love as if you 'love' a girlfriend/boyfriend whatever the scenario might be. It's two completely different types of love, but one word.
Throughout life you come across people who you date, and love, so technically it's already possible to love more than one person.

However, the term 'love' in the sexual relationship usage is on more of a personal level than if you 'love your dog', so it shouldn't be thrown around for anyone you have a crush on, or else it loses its meaning. So if you love two people at one time, most likely one of those is lust, but it's completely dependant on the individual.

*Baal* · Sep 22, 2006, 08:31 PM

It't true cuz some people are with eacother but there not are really in love or have found it there just together for one reason to show off there relationship and weee

Wolf_of_the_North · Sep 22, 2006, 08:37 PM

I personally do not believe it, but it's a matter of opinion. But there is such a thing as polyamory...

For3v3r_Lost · Sep 22, 2006, 08:49 PM

yeah loving two people at the same time isn't "true love" it's mostly lust. I know like 2-4 people that's like that. I'm friends with them but I dont actually really trust them since they're like that. True love and lust is different. True love is when you truely love someone and do anything to be with that one person every single moment of your life. True love is mysterious in many ways. It has to many meanings. Lust...well someone already explained it about that.

*Violent* · Sep 22, 2006, 08:53 PM

True love is a bonding between 2 when they have true feelings for that other person like you would try and do anything you could for that person, and yes most relationships between 3 people = the male wanted more sexuality basically...

*Baal* · Sep 22, 2006, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Violent

True love is a bonding between 2 when they have true feelings for that other person like you would try and do anything you could for that person, and yes most relationships between 3 people = the male wanted more sexuality basically...

is there such thing as 3 people relations??
that would be even worst they wont be in love for sure

*Violent* · Sep 22, 2006, 09:14 PM

Its usally 1 man and 2 women its a lust thing for men to try and get as many women as he can and yes its never really love ever....

*Baal* · Sep 22, 2006, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Violent

Its usally 1 man and 2 women its a lust thing for men to try and get as many women as he can and yes its never really love ever....

o so that explains why in the hip hop vids they have so much girls around em...
now i understand how does love truly goes around.

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Chubz Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Vancouver Island, British Columbia Posts: 365 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 329	Re: Does Loving Two People Mean Your Not Really In Love? Lust is when you have a strong sexual desire for someone. As for your question, love is a pretty wide term. Like...you 'love' your family, but it's not the same type of love as if you 'love' a girlfriend/boyfriend whatever the scenario might be. It's two completely different types of love, but one word. Throughout life you come across people who you date, and love, so technically it's already possible to love more than one person. However, the term 'love' in the sexual relationship usage is on more of a personal level than if you 'love your dog', so it shouldn't be thrown around for anyone you have a crush on, or else it loses its meaning. So if you love two people at one time, most likely one of those is lust, but it's completely dependant on the individual. __________________ Many Thanks To SasuraiHell For The Sig!
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