Thread: Does Loving Two People Mean Your Not Really In Love?

i agree with this kids and adults alike are blind over lust or infatuatuon
and think its ok to hurt the bf ir gf when they have more than one person

Originally Posted by HolderOfTheDarkChalice

i can justify it becuase love never wroks with 3 people and it never will
its reckess and not caring about how the other might feel,you can never say you love someone or even use the wrod love if you need more than one person. your just abusing them emotionaly and thats cruel

Unless they all believe in polyamory, of course

Originally Posted by Lil_G135

Unless they all believe in polyamory, of course

What is polyamory??

Originally Posted by HolderOfTheDarkChalice

this one is pretty easy to answear it isnt love if you need more than one person ,there no big fancy button you can wear saying"HEY I HAVE 2 BF'S/GF'S" it isnt going to happen no matter how much you debate it
love is meant for 2 not 3,call me to old to undersyand but love isnt a play thing like everyone uses.
so if you have a bf/gf but want somone else also you dont love the person you
are with no ifs,and,or buts. so if you find your self want another just git rid
of the gf/bf because you dont love them or respect them enough to just want them

Originally Posted by HolderOfTheDarkChalice

i can justify it becuase love never wroks with 3 people and it never will
its reckess and not caring about how the other might feel,you can never say you love someone or even use the wrod love if you need more than one person. your just abusing them emotionaly and thats cruel

I've changed my mind. I agree with Holder. You can only truly be in love with one person. Once you bring another into it, you start thinking about both those people, and your feelings for both could not be equal. Neither of them could ever have your full love once you make it a triangle. The one you aren't with will always occupy your mind while you're with the other and it isn't right. It's not fair to the person you're with.

I could never love another the way i do Shade. I know that he's the only one for me and I couldn't think of another in the way of love. I just couldn't. Firstly because he has my whole heart, not just part, and secondly because I just don't think of others like that anymore. Other guys are no longer options, they are either friends or just there. So yeah, if you think you're in love with two people, it's time to ditch both of them most likely before they ditch you.

Originally Posted by Gokhan

What is polyamory??

Ah, it's a practice where people believe in having a relationship with more than one person with everyone's consent. Polygamy (marrying more than one person) is a well known form of polyamory

Originally Posted by Lil_G135

Ah, it's a practice where people believe in having a relationship with more than one person with everyone's consent. Polygamy (marrying more than one person) is a well known form of polyamory

That is a muslim's belief...I am a christian so it's against our belief. Only one marriage applies. That's our belief but no offense to what others believe...I respect it...

I do not believe in it!! but there are ppl who really live too life wit 2 different person!! but I dont believe that we can call LOVE...