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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    I just don't know... I'm not saying I came from a great totally healthy environment, but geesh... I mean WHAT THE H_LL!

    You know my Dad had levels of punishment for us kids (there were 5 of us miscreants), and we learned from it. We were good kids, but when we got into trouble... we really did it good!

    Level 1 offense hand across your back side.

    Level 2 offense belt across your back side.

    Level 3 offense you got the paddle across your back side.

    Level 4 offense you got the paddle with the holes... wait it gets better. He would get "the stool" out. Trust me, every kid in our neighborhood knew what "the stool" coming out onto the porch meant. One of us was about to give them a show. Yeah, you got it. He paddled our A_S with the holey paddle in front of ALL your friends.

    Yeah, those were the days. Discipline just isn't what it used to be. People used to discipline there kids, and kids learned from it.

    Now parents are either afraid, indifferent, enabling, or insane.

    Afraid: Some parent's are afraid to discipline their kids. We all see it. Their kid is making a scene at a store, and just as the parent goes to discipline them, they look around first see people watching, so instead of stopping the behavior, they do nothing out of fear that some idiot will call some authority on them. (Or) some parents are just afraid OF their kids.

    Indifferent: Some parents couldn't care less what their kids do, so long as it doesn't bother them. The kids come and go as they please, do as they please, hang out with who they please. I actually know some people like this. Trust me we are not friends, I just know them.

    Enablers: Their the parents who treat their kids more like a buddy than their child. No rules, no discipline, no punishment. The parent thinks, hey if I'm doing it so can they, I'm not a hypocrite.

    Insane: Well if you need an example see above! What the H_LL!

    Who the H_LL let's somebody off for this s_it?

    Now let me see if I have this straight.... It's bad to paddle your kids back end with your hand now a days, but it's OK to forcibly pierce your child's genitalia!?!?!

    I'm not sure I have the level of profanity in my vocabulary to do justice to this article.

    Now sex wasn't a real big thing when we were kids, at least not from where I was from. If some girl got knocked up... woo, couple of steps short of a scarlet letter there. Now we didn't talk about things like *whispers* sex... It just wasn't talked about. That's what health & sex ed classes were for. *grins*

    Before you get going, I'm not THAT old, I guess I just come from a place where things were, well different than here & now.

    Now a days you have to start talking with you kids early. Start them young, just modify the conversation as they get older. My niece is only 7, although she's the first to correct you 7 and 1/2. But she's already been asking us questions about sex for a few years now. Where do they pick it up from? And we have already started having discussions with her. I mean sometimes she makes you wanna shave her head (terrible 2's...try 2's-7's), but dang. I just do not get how that was not abuse.

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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    Quote Originally Posted by Miroku4444 View Post
    Thats not a religion, thats a CULT my friend.
    I don't know about it being a religious practice, but it is a cultural practice common in areas of Africa, especially Egypt. The whole point is to keep women virgins until they're married by taking any possible pleasure out of sex. There were too many links to go through and pick one to post, but just do a google search of "Female circumcision" or "Female genital mutilation", and you'll find out more than you ever wanted to know about the subject.

    Quote Originally Posted by atomik_sprout View Post
    I think someone said in an older thread that a mom in UK got arrested for... What was it?... Oh! For cutting off her daughters clitoris, so she couldn't feel pleasure during sex. (I think that's what happened) I know that nobody's dad would do that!
    On the contrary, many fathers in cultures that practice FGM encourage it to be done to their daughters. You have to understand that unlike here in the US, where marriage is usually a choice between two consenting adults, in other cultures, marriages are arranged often for financial and societal gain of the families. A woman who isn't a virgin is far less likely to be married into a good, wealthy family. Not that this excuses such a violation of a woman's rights, but maybe it will give you an idea of the mindset of the people who really believe in it.

    A while back, there was an article in the paper about a man who circumcised his two year old daughter. Took me a while to find it but here it is:

    Dad gets 10 years for genital mutilation
    Chicago Sun-Times, Nov 2, 2006

    LAWRENCEVILLE, Ga. -- An Ethiopian immigrant was convicted Wednesday of the genital mutilation of his 2-year-old daughter and was sentenced to 10 years in prison in what was believed to be the first such criminal case in the United States.

    Khalid Adem, 30, was found guilty of aggravated battery and cruelty to children. Prosecutors said he used scissors to remove his daughter's clitoris in his family's Atlanta-area apartment in 2001. The child's mother, Fortunate Adem, said she did not discover it until more than a year later.

    During her father's trial, the girl, now 7, clutched a teddy bear as she testified on videotape that her father "cut me on my private part."
    My mom and I were talking about this, and neither one of us could figure out how the mother didn't notice for an entire year that her daughter had been mutilated like this. The child must have been in unimaginable pain, and anyone who's seen a two year old knows that they aren't good at hiding their discomfort. And being so young, it's probable that the girl was still bathed by a parent; I find it hard to believe that either the mother hadn't given her child a bath in over 12 months, and if she did, just failed to notice.
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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    It's a tribe in Africa or some such actually. Not a cult. It's the religion of a whole people. Not just a crazy religious faction. I think some muslumsdo that too though. Which would I think be considered a cult...it's a faction of a religious belief. But this isn't JUST a religious thing. It's a society thing.
    Umm... you meant muslims? *raises eyebrow* im a muslim and no i never heard such a thing done in my religion...

    Islam strictly prohibits that muslims must not have sex or do anything that has to do with sex until they are married... and doing like sewing the opening or the clitoris cutting... is strictly prohibited as well.... a muslim must not harm others or suchs to others...or anyone including themselves... ^^

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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    Quote Originally Posted by atomik_sprout View Post
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    Now isn't that just all kinds of F#$@ up??? Don't ya think that parents should simply talk to thier kids about things of this nature? I can understand wanting to punish your child as discipline, but that only goes so far!

    What's your opinion? Do you think the mother was right or wrong? Do you think she should've got more jail time? I do! If my mom did somethin' like that to one of my sisters, I'd have a friggin' cow!!

    No self-respecting parent would do that to their child! That's not protection, that's abuse!

    OMG that is taking parental control way beyond the boundaries. For a mother to piercing her daughters genitalia just so she couldn't have sex is way too drastic. If anything I would say the mother was too jealous of her daughter and couldn't cope when she found out she was having sex with her boyfriend. And seeing as she couldn't control the boyfriend she headed straight for the daughter and scarred her for life. How does the mother that the sexual relationship between the daughter and her boyfriend was a mutual thing? I guess they never asked that really?

    Its amazing what people will do when they are jealous. For a mother to do that isn't really acting on a mothers instincts for the safety of her child but for her anger as she learns that her daughter is beautiful. When I eventually have children, I would be proud to have a beautiful daughter, of course I will teacher her good manners and how to behave around men and try my best to not turn her into a slut. I know for a fact that my daughter will be better looking that me so I won't be jealous but be glad to have a daughter.
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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    Im not really a Doctor, but when they cut the clitoris or cut it off like that guy did, doesn't that mess them up. Can they still have good sex when they are married later? I know if they just sow it up you could, but this cutting or cutting off sounds like it would ruin future sexual encounters.

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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    Well it has to do something harmful to that area.
    Health issues

    Like all piercings in highly sensitive erectile tissue, there is always a risk of nerve damage associated with this piercing, although it is rare. Although there is a lack of evidence, urban legends pose that desensitization may arise in the bearer as she becomes acclimated to constant stimulation.
    So yeah its going to do some deal of damage. Isn't wiki helpful :P
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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    Quote Originally Posted by Sazzy View Post
    Well it has to do something harmful to that area.


    So yeah its going to do some deal of damage. Isn't wiki helpful :P
    Well those cultures are kinda messed up. I mean yeah i might want a virgin, but i would want a normal fully functional one. So they keep em virgins at the price of *!(@))_*@ them up. Yeah, that makes sense.

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    Re: Drastic parenting measures!

    I know its obvious the mother wasn't planning ahead and was acting without thinking! I mean for a mother to cause such possible harm to her daughter is unbelievable. The mother must be ill mentally to think it would help her daughter. I am sorry to say it but no mother in their right state of mind would do that ever!
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