+ Reply to Thread
Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 1 2 3 LastLast
Results 9 to 16 of 18

Thread: Emotions?

  1. #9
    Newbie kurohime is off to a good start kurohime's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2010
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    i'm one of those who control their emotions, i don't want other people to see through me..

  2. #10
    Otaku Basketball Champion Shippo101 has disabled reputation Shippo101's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    In my own imagination
    Thanked 13 Times in 12 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    I guess I’ll follow the trend. Im dreadfully good at hiding what I feel sometimes. But as a woman(and I hope I don’t sound sexist against my own sex) I have a muuuuuccchhh harder time concealing when I’m border line sad and ticked off. Its like a sickness!

    But I guess it goes for nearly anyone. Emotions arent just conveyed thru what you tell. Its shown thru the way you speak, move, and react.

    Any other emotion Im really good at hiding. I think anyone, like me, gets irritated when someone comes along and swears to god they can ready you like a “My first Dictionary”. I have this double emotion thing that I practice with. One is A Rowena that’s meant to be read like a book and one that’s plotting to take over the world… or just steal ur cookies.

    I agree with Sprout. I mean we cant hide all our emotions all the time from everyone. There’s gonna be someone who genuinely reads you. But not like a “My first dictionary” but more like a “Webster’s University Dictionary”

    I guess to properly answer ur question: I have a very good grip on my emotions. I don’t fly off the handle and start going nuts(all the time). I prefer being around people who have a good grip on how they feel but can show a little life every now and then and not sit there like the Terminator. At the same time I really cant stand people who have no emotional restraint. People who act like its death if they calm down.
    Shippo is determined to become a lvl higher
    I'm a solider of Pen and Paper!
    <3 Atomik_Sprout <3

  3. #11
    Mathematical!! Bugz Champion, Ant Bully Champion, Chainsaw the childern Champion, 3D Net Blazer Champion, Cricket Challenge Champion, Big Uglies Champion, Body Check Champion, Desktop Fishing Champion, All Star Skate Park Champion, Chuckie Egg Champion, Birdy Champion, Anthrax Jelly Champion, Air Typer Champion, Word Pads Champion, Crash Test Dummy Curling Champion, The Mini Jump Game Champion, Chairlift Challenge Champion, Astroboy vs One Bad Storm Champion, Fight Man Champion, Blot In Hell Champion, Beeku Adventure Champion, Connect2 Champion, Atomica Champion, Cannonball Follies 2 Champion, Bada Boing Champion, BeachDefence Champion, Alkie Kong 2 Champion atomik_sprout has become well known atomik_sprout has become well known atomik_sprout has become well known atomik_sprout's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Minneapolis, MN
    Thanked 166 Times in 141 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    I'm notorious for wall building. It's what I've been doing since I was six. I'm actively working on expressing my emotions a bit better. Art usually helps me but if I don't share it with others, it becomes another brick in the wall (to quote Pink Floyd). I used to snap on people because one tiny little thing that bothered me would be what broke the damn and let my emotions flood out. Now, it's a bit different. I either tell you how I feel or, I just wait until there's an opportunity to tell you without causing a scene. The latter usually doesn't happen until it's much too late or never at all. But, I feel like I'm better at controlling how I deal with my emotions. Not controlling the emotions themselves.

  4. #12
    Slam Dunk Da Funk Soshi Kitai is making a name for themselves Soshi Kitai is making a name for themselves Soshi Kitai's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Inbetween stuff.
    Thanked 67 Times in 55 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    When I'm with Abu, I control my emotions - almost completely logically.
    Even things that get to my nerves (things that anger me or sadden me) are thoroughly checked and studied before I decide to do the right thing or act on emotion.

    I balance it this way (in its simplified form): C = B. If U>B, then not C.
    C is controlling emotions.
    B is better outcome.
    U is unfair treatment.
    Example: If someone says something insulting over something that I love, I'll still most likely control my emotions to push towards a more reasonable reaction from the other - or I say something to humor them and rid of the tension. However, if (this is extremely simplified compared to how I actually balance this part) another takes advantage of my reasonable/humorous tactic - my "Unbalance Meter" starts twitching, as they're obviously not trying to be reasonable. Usually after three strikes (which vary greatly), I decide that I'm being treated completely Unfairly, and decide to use my emotions to retaliate (and I can say some pretty hurtful things if I know a person enough).

    However, I ensure that my emotions never control my physical actions... as those can have horrible results (it always has for me). I keep emotions on the social standard.

    HOWEVER: When I'm not with Abu for a long period of time (staying late at night while she sleeps early counts), my emotions tend to take over me.
    Some part of me moves aside when this happens (being away from Abu): My logical side just hangs up the towel and allows my emotions to run rampant.
    I suppose it's my separation-depression that allows that, but I find it rather strange that my logical side would give up so easily. It's usually stern, but the instant she's gone for a good amount of time: It just gives up. ._.

    I suppose it's because I built that logical side of myself to protect Abu. A sort of "duty" reaction.
    Without her to protect, I revert back to my old self... which is completely emotional, irrational, and easily excitable.

    As a test, I listened to an old song that I loved... thrice with Abu, thrice without. When with, I react nostalgically and talk about old memories in a logical manner. When without, I react in a depressing manner and start creating something through art (poetry, drawing, music, etc.).

    So... yeah. It's completely dependent on Abu. I'm normally an emotional guy without her. But I suppose it's because she's normally emotional herself that I felt like I had to balance her.

  5. The Following User Says Thank You to Soshi Kitai For This Useful Post:

    Shippo101 (Nov 08, 2010)

  6. #13
    Otaku desxms may be famous one day desxms may be famous one day desxms's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Oxnard is a great by the beach place
    Thanked 26 Times in 22 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    My conscious brain looks for what it wants... my animal brain is emotional for the fight or flight response can detect danger. Emotions are nature's way of protecting us when we need extra might and energy. I go with my emotions when I am afraid or threatened when the brain detects danger. Emotions make one do things with more strength and speed since the body needs extra protection against attackers and other threats. Fear, apprehension, fighting are all motions emoted for survival.

  7. #14
    Otaku Sarentai Kyoukan is off to a good start Sarentai Kyoukan's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2010
    Trapped in a vortex of boredom =_=
    Thanked 18 Times in 18 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    I control most of my emotions ...like the tyms when a room full of ppl flood with tears and Ill just have a wet eye.lol I like bottling it all up inside coz its better that way .but when it come to anger i can only control it upto a limit ...after that I go mad with anger and my eyes go red .It just feels good to be angry sometimes and this inner voice will be lke yes ...release more anger ..lol =p

  8. #15
    Newbie DarkDragon is off to a good start
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    because of many things i went through most of them connected to death "for a while i acted like a zombie" (thats a quote from some of my best friends ) so I try to control my emotions and take the mental high road but i find that its not a very happy road, people resent it when you cant cry at a loved ones death or a disaster and when you just shrug off anything and keep moving...(for me this was not a choice Im a bleeding heart and id have gone nuts if i hadnt done so)
    Recently i realized this was worse and decided to show a facade of stability and Happiness no matter if im happy or not this has helped and i think i know what my answer should have been......Instead of allowing my emotions to contol me i control my emotions to such a degree that I Change them to fit my needs this way they serve a purpose and they help me toward my goals instead of hindering them
    Last edited by DarkDragon; Feb 06, 2011 at 11:28 PM. Reason: I hit post by accident :P

  9. #16
    Otaku POOHEAD189 is off to a good start POOHEAD189's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2009
    Birmingham Alabama
    Thanked 14 Times in 13 Posts

    Re: Emotions?

    I can control my emotions very well. I can be very stoic. But that doesn't take away my passion.
    Crazy people don't know they're going crazy. They think they're getting saner.

+ Reply to Thread
Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 1 2 3 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Emotions
    By Mini Dev in forum Cyber Lounge
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: Mar 31, 2008, 06:21 AM
  2. Emotions
    By fireandice in forum Poems
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: Jan 04, 2008, 07:17 PM
  3. Emotions
    By stainedwithdeath in forum Poems
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: Dec 29, 2007, 12:47 PM
  4. Emotions
    By flaminghate in forum Poems
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: Feb 08, 2007, 09:28 PM
  5. Four Emotions
    By mystical shadow angel in forum Poems
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: Oct 19, 2006, 04:20 AM


Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts