pink_hana

If we're all destined to have our own soulmates, then why do others end up being alone??...

If love searches for us, then why do some people still end up alone??...
Other people are lucky to have a someone but what about others??...
Are they born to be alone?? but I know some prefer to be that way coz for them it's their very stable life...

I'm just curious...coz some people who searches love ends up a miserable life...

so the very big question here is...are we all born to have our own soulmates??..

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Sazzy

I am going to move this to a debate discussion as it seems best fitting for that section.

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I think its that there are some people are not going to find love, Eventually everyone will find love, its more or less that if people go looking for love they won't find. Instead they are meant to be patient and wait for the right person to come along. People who end up miserable are that way because its what they choose in life, they feel they can't be happy so they subconsciously tell themselves they won't and never break free from that way of thinking. Unless something jolts them, then they just continue in a life of depression.

I always thought I would be alone forever, but then I found someone whom I loved so much right under my nose as he was my closest friend and I haven't looked back since.

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!AngelicDemon201092

If we're all destined to have our own soulmates, then why do others end up being alone??...

Because they give up on love, They take the hearts of others and then say that they can't love, that they give up. They think that there is no one out there but there really is... If they want it online they end up wanting to be able to touch a "real" person, wanting to love some one they can see every day and not just talk to.

If love searches for us, then why do some people still end up alone??...

Love doesn't really search for us i guess.. we search for it. Kinda. You see love does find us, most of the time we meet our soul mate at a young age but because we are so young or something we may not realize that it's them. Or something will keep them apart, whether is be the fact that they are far away or the fact that they can't tell the other how they feel... There's usually something that blinds us from seeing out SM at a young age.

Other people are lucky to have a someone but what about others??...

Some soulmates are born in different times, with 3, 5, maybe even 10 or more years differences... so they may never find their soulmate but i'm sure they can find at least true love...

Are they born to be alone??

To be honest that really has nothing to do with it in my opinion

pink_hana

Ur so lucky Sazzy, unlyk me...always brokenhearted, I never really found love...actually, it's always a one-sided love...dunno y?? but still I don't give up on love...maybe when I'm ten years older I will...

tnx 4 ur opinions...it actually helped me ryt now, I'm nearly losing hope u know...but still, I'm happy ^____^ see dis big smile??...that's me...lol

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Sazzy

I am just lucky to find him yes but its mostly because I gave up looking for my one true love but just got on with single life. Something I know sucks but self confidence always seems to attract someone. I don't know why it does but it really does work, if your confident about your self completely and your happy with the way look (saying your sexy to your self in the mirror is meant to work) then I am sure things will change. Its only when we are happy with ourself that we can happy with the rest of the world.

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Rave_Grip

Get over it



Just kidding ^_^

Let me start of by saying that like love, life also has no meaning.
It is what we create ourselves. Even though love is an emotion, it is an empty entity, a powerful force nonetheless, just like life.
You see, they are both the same, it is the meaning we create ourselves. They are like water, add anything and put them into any conatiner, and they would take it's form / shape, and change accordingly.
Since everybody is different, people have different points of views on love and life.

People end up being alone, some of them anyway, because they don't either try, or give up.
Also, love does not search for us, it is around us, you see ... to be "manipulated" to some sort, or to be used or felt, and it will behave like water, likewise.
People end up being loners because they tend to grab the water in their hands, which ultimately ends up getting out. However, if you hold the water carefully in your hands without dissoloving any negativity, it will be pure.
Some are "lucky" and some are "unlucky".
Yeah, so?
True love is rare, or almost impossible to find. As humans, we have always been bound by our social status, our cast, religion, religious backgrounds, and ultimately, the society.
That is why the quest for finding true love never ends. If we were to break through those barriers, finding true love would be far more harder.
In any case, don't give up, and if you think you found the special one, be calm and love him / her. Don'tgo straight for sex, or use love as an overrated word / phrase / emotion / whatever.

If you think people are born to be alone, let alone yourself, you will continue to see life in this way.

We are born alone.
We will die alone.

But what happens in between is up to us. If we give up on life, everything seems hopless, and we think of suiciding, or sometimes think about ... "Is there anyone who would save me from myself? Love me?" ... well, if you give up on love, likewise, it would be the same situation.
See how this works? Don't think it's hard.

But, if they prefer to be alone, build a fortress to defend from love and compassionate feelings, shield themselves from trust and friends, be a rock that never feels pain or an island that never cries ...

They are probably trying to hide the fact that they have been weakend, but, it is upto them.

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Rave_Grip

Nice, I agree ^_^.
But, I just want to make sure, is that a case of "Who know, who cares?" or just that we should be happy with what we've got, and love the one we find approachable?

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fireandice

I'd have to agree with Rave_Grip on this one. The problem with finding your soulmate is that sometimes you get so into looking for the perfect person that you miss the one that your susposed to be with. They tend to be someone that you may have already met or someone that you know very well. You just never looked at them that way before. But I truly believe that no one is ment to be alone, if they are it is their own doing or they don't want to accept the person that wants to be with them. So their soulmate is out there, they just don't want them.

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Namida Goddess

That is a really good question and one I have been thinking about lately. I wonder if I will ever find someone interested in me at all. I have never really had a boyfriend and the only two guys who ever showed any interest in me, the very first day we were together they would go a little too far and because I could never be that way, I told them it might not work out. Maybe I was over reacting but I am not a girl that wants guys interested in me because they hope I will put out, when I won't! I mean I think I have my head on straight and can be fun to hang out with but it just seems like guys aren't very interested in me at all. I guess I still have a lot of time but I still think about it. I would like to think there was someone out there for everyone but then again not everyone finds that person.

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