But there is a question in my mind ... what if you're no concious of your true love, or what if you don't want or you think it's no use? ^_^
Would we still find one?
And also, "true love" requires a lot of hardwork to work upon, however, if we don't make a commitment, we'd end up feeling pathetic ... my opinion anyway.
But, I wonder, what if it's your brain that sometimes causes you to believe that the person you met, is the one you love the most? I'm reffering to one of those "hallucinating", or rather temporarily moments of love.
^ And even if it starts off slow, and progresses into a good relationship, and then deep love, would he or she be a "soulmate"? Because many people also know how to make someone feel specialorknow when something is wrong.
Love is something that you can't be told your feeling, you will just know. Its something that only you will know as its a personal emotion. You will be able to tell the difference to one that isn't really true love but you think it is as you might get certain doubts or have certain problems in the relationship.
its all depend if you can wait or not. if you can wait to let your soulmate to find you, the you have all the time in the world to find your partner and still find love with your soulmate. if you cant wait, you can search for your partner in your neighbourhood or state. i say people who end up alone, is either those who want to be alone or not searching in the right place for their perfect partner or someone that they really like.
i dont think we are born to be alone, it up to us if we want a soulmate or not.