what a cynical person we are .
1: you need to add some flavor to your life (get a girl, and if you got one. the sacred trinity ((menosatrio)))
2: change is always a good thing. we are currently remodeling our house and that keeps my mind of the monotony of school and redundant re-runs of inu-yasha and FMA
3: you make the assumption that every man's life centers on self indulgence, however that is not true and never will be. why don't you pay a visit to a local church (any denomination).