this post has nothing to do with the topic! and a homophobic statement will be recognized.Quote:
Originally Posted by _gwenibe_ View Post
(I think it was Arrianna that single parents are more likely to raise rapists in another thread?)
*raises eyebrow in confusion*
Excuse me? I what?
aand _gwenibe_ i am upset at the fact that she said that adoption has nothing to do with the desires of the soon to be parents... if there was no desire behind their motives then what kind of environment would that child be brought into... the desire to adopt
to pay for the ability to raise a child is exponentially relevant arrianna. You must understand that if there was no desire put out by the adopting parents that there would be no real way of assuring that childs safety
I say that it is equally what the parents want as to what the child needs
you have to desire to want to help the child and if you do not then dont bother...
and dont tell me that those who are adopted and are placed in fostercare (those traditional seeming families) turn out A OK. because that is quite untrue. watch the movie america. it is a movie about children bouncing from home to home.... one is a cutter she saw her father kill herself
the other attempts to hang himself because his foster mothers brother molested him. and they were brother and sister... a traditional setting. please save your words now
as i said ur opinion has been documented. Thank You.