Give the nice guys a chance.

Meji Imaru · Jun 16, 2006, 02:06 PM

From a guy's point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.
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Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
__________________________________________________ __
Yeah, you can quote me.
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Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.

LET US PAY FOR YOU!

DON'T "FEEL BAD"

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."
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Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
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You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

__________________________________________________ __
Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.
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Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
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Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )
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Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRYASS, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" ...

....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

Give the nice guys a chance

I read this and was thinking about it. I agree 110% with what this person said. They had it on myspace and it was a chain so I dont know who was the original poster of it but, he was smart thats for sure. What do you guys think about it?

*Exoparadapsyphobia* · Jun 16, 2006, 05:07 PM

I think you posted this in the wrong forum, that's what I think. I also think this guy needs to get over himself and find a new girlfriend.

*HolderOfTheDarkChalice* · Jun 16, 2006, 05:28 PM

girls will read this and
laugh they dont take guys
at face value they thnk nice guys
are a joke. it shouldt always be about guys
makign the girls happy though it does help
but the girls shpuld put there 2 cent worth in
and not just sit there and look pretty with a smile
on her face that obly goes so far before its boaring

viper11025 · Jun 16, 2006, 05:37 PM

It's true but an attept to say something most people should know.
By the way I'm really a nice person that can turn into a demon at a moment's notice.
So, this nice guy thing won't apply to me,sry.

Banana&Apple · Jun 16, 2006, 05:40 PM

i dont understand..im sorry but i dont..

*Dark.* · Jun 16, 2006, 06:00 PM

This seems journalish, what's exactly being discussed here? All you posted was some dumb rant a guy made on myspace. :rollseyes:

Lil_G135 · Jun 17, 2006, 09:02 PM

I think what's to be discussed is how you feel about the entry (do you agree or disagree?), your experience with or being a nice guy, and/or add some more points to that list

Me, I would definitely give a nice guy a chance - if I could find a guy like that around here once in awhile ^_^;; I guess I can understand why they're not coming out as much, though...some girls can be really high-maintenence and such, so they tend to like the 'being waited on' part of a nice guy... but to be a plain, full-blown 'nice guy' and taken seriously is probably really hard.

I think alot of the above aspects are pretty true, and I think it's really sweet if a guy happens to be that way

Sum Guy · Jun 18, 2006, 11:50 AM

I am a nice guy and this has been my experiance as one. At the preteen age dating is pointless in my opinion because people are still trying to gain their morals and beliefs. I am 16 at this moment and i have found that teenage girls do not want a nice guy... for the most part. There are some girls that do and I know that but I am talking about the majority of girls. The majority wants the jerk, popular, physically attractive guy. It doesn't matter if he will treat her well or not. Now I will explain where i get all of this from. All of my friends that are jerks seem to be constantly dating nice girls and they treat them horribly... in public anyways. All of my friends that are girls have major crushes on guys that are complete idiots and a***o*es. I know that they will be hurt by them and they still continue with liking them completely disregarding the clear truth about them. As a nice guy I warn them and answer all questions and I warn them. Now, I have only had one girlfriend and she was amazingly kind to me, but it didn't work out that well because she still liked her ex who is one of the mentioned above jerks. I am sorry if i sound like I'm just complaining but this is a topic that has affected me my whole life. It is as the old saying goes "Nice guys finish last".

confused · Jun 18, 2006, 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by [B

HolderOfTheDarkChalice[/b]]girls will read this and
laugh they dont take guys
at face value they thnk nice guys
are a joke. it shouldt always be about guys
makign the girls happy though it does help
but the girls shpuld put there 2 cent worth in
and not just sit there and look pretty with a smile
on her face that obly goes so far before its boaring

@-@............................................ ........@-@

setsuna mudo1617 · Jun 18, 2006, 01:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sum Guy

I am a nice guy and this has been my experiance as one. At the preteen age dating is pointless in my opinion because people are still trying to gain their morals and beliefs. I am 16 at this moment and i have found that teenage girls do not want a nice guy... for the most part. There are some girls that do and I know that but I am talking about the majority of girls. The majority wants the jerk, popular, physically attractive guy. It doesn't matter if he will treat her well or not. Now I will explain where i get all of this from. All of my friends that are jerks seem to be constantly dating nice girls and they treat them horribly... in public anyways. All of my friends that are girls have major crushes on guys that are complete idiots and a***o*es. I know that they will be hurt by them and they still continue with liking them completely disregarding the clear truth about them. As a nice guy I warn them and answer all questions and I warn them. Now, I have only had one girlfriend and she was amazingly kind to me, but it didn't work out that well because she still liked her ex who is one of the mentioned above jerks. I am sorry if i sound like I'm just complaining but this is a topic that has affected me my whole life. It is as the old saying goes "Nice guys finish last".

i agree with Sum Guy.
@Sum Guy:we are almost the same.lol

*dude101* · Jun 19, 2006, 01:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sum Guy

I am a nice guy and this has been my experiance as one. At the preteen age dating is pointless in my opinion because people are still trying to gain their morals and beliefs. I am 16 at this moment and i have found that teenage girls do not want a nice guy... for the most part. There are some girls that do and I know that but I am talking about the majority of girls. The majority wants the jerk, popular, physically attractive guy. It doesn't matter if he will treat her well or not. Now I will explain where i get all of this from. All of my friends that are jerks seem to be constantly dating nice girls and they treat them horribly... in public anyways. All of my friends that are girls have major crushes on guys that are complete idiots and a***o*es. I know that they will be hurt by them and they still continue with liking them completely disregarding the clear truth about them. As a nice guy I warn them and answer all questions and I warn them. Now, I have only had one girlfriend and she was amazingly kind to me, but it didn't work out that well because she still liked her ex who is one of the mentioned above jerks. I am sorry if i sound like I'm just complaining but this is a topic that has affected me my whole life. It is as the old saying goes "Nice guys finish last".

i think they go for them cause they hide nothing, and i mean absolutely nothing.... *shivers* that brings back bad memories. anyway i don't think nice guys always finish last.... its just the nice guys that cling to that clequa that finish last, really theres always a girl out there, all u need to do is get out there and ask..

Jun 16, 2006, 02:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
Meji Imaru Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Why do you want to know this.... Posts: 343 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 479	Give the nice guys a chance. From a guy's point of view: We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning. __________________________________________________ __ Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. __________________________________________________ __ Yeah, you can quote me. __________________________________________________ __ Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in. LET US PAY FOR YOU! DON'T "FEEL BAD" We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you." __________________________________________________ __ Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed. __________________________________________________ __ You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up __________________________________________________ __ Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. __________________________________________________ __ Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. __________________________________________________ __ Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful" I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; ) __________________________________________________ __ Girls, I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRYASS, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ... ....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT! Give the nice guys a chance I read this and was thinking about it. I agree 110% with what this person said. They had it on myspace and it was a chain so I dont know who was the original poster of it but, he was smart thats for sure. What do you guys think about it? __________________ Last edited by Meji Imaru; Jun 16, 2006 at 02:08 PM.
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Lil_G135 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Where the clowns can see you now.. Posts: 369 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Credits: 572	Re: Give the nice guys a chance. I think what's to be discussed is how you feel about the entry (do you agree or disagree?), your experience with or being a nice guy, and/or add some more points to that list Me, I would definitely give a nice guy a chance - if I could find a guy like that around here once in awhile ^_^;; I guess I can understand why they're not coming out as much, though...some girls can be really high-maintenence and such, so they tend to like the 'being waited on' part of a nice guy... but to be a plain, full-blown 'nice guy' and taken seriously is probably really hard. I think alot of the above aspects are pretty true, and I think it's really sweet if a guy happens to be that way __________________ Music is my santuary, music is my blanket *三日坊主傍目八目外柔内剛*
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Sum Guy Newbie Join Date: May 2006 Location: My basement Posts: 14 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 181	Re: Give the nice guys a chance. I am a nice guy and this has been my experiance as one. At the preteen age dating is pointless in my opinion because people are still trying to gain their morals and beliefs. I am 16 at this moment and i have found that teenage girls do not want a nice guy... for the most part. There are some girls that do and I know that but I am talking about the majority of girls. The majority wants the jerk, popular, physically attractive guy. It doesn't matter if he will treat her well or not. Now I will explain where i get all of this from. All of my friends that are jerks seem to be constantly dating nice girls and they treat them horribly... in public anyways. All of my friends that are girls have major crushes on guys that are complete idiots and a**oes. I know that they will be hurt by them and they still continue with liking them completely disregarding the clear truth about them. As a nice guy I warn them and answer all questions and I warn them. Now, I have only had one girlfriend and she was amazingly kind to me, but it didn't work out that well because she still liked her ex who is one of the mentioned above jerks. I am sorry if i sound like I'm just complaining but this is a topic that has affected me my whole life. It is as the old saying goes "Nice guys finish last". __________________ JUGGALOS!!!
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