Guys vs. Girls

CBtay01 · May 25, 2009, 02:25 PM

ok so idk if i am the only one out but are i am not so um well you know how they always say that the guy is always the strong one in a relationship well i am seretly stronger than my boy friend but i dont want to tell him cus i know he'll dump me but the thing is

Is it ok to be in a relationship with a girl if she is stronger than the guy or is it just demoralizing?

Ashes · May 25, 2009, 04:08 PM

of course it's okay! As long as two people love each other, no matter what their weaknesses, a relationship will still work. Everyone has their strong and weak points. And if the girl is stronger, she should whip her boyfriend into shape emotionally, phsycally, and mentally XD

Scourge · May 25, 2009, 04:44 PM

In retrospect, it does not matter as long as the two of you love each other. In a relationship the guy or girl can eather play the "strong" roll. What matters is that BOTH have equal say in the relationship, and that "strong" roll will some times shift as the relationship goes on. At one point it can be the guy and at another it is the girl and then back and forth. This is normal as long as one or the other does not dominate the relationship. It does not matter who it is the "strong" one.

EmoNightmareRose · May 25, 2009, 04:45 PM

It's okay as long as both of you are okay with it.
If a guy feels that he needs to be dominate and has a problem with women, don't get a strong girlfriend who'll whoop your ass.
If a woman feel she has to be dominate, then don't date a dude who'll you'll compete with for control.
But if there is someone who is shy or feels weaker and wants a dominate person then you can be dominate regardless of gender.

If you guys are equal and comfortable, that's the best thing

lapislazuli · May 25, 2009, 05:21 PM

Of course it's okay. As long as the relationship is working out, it doesn't really matter who's playing the stronger role in it.
And often, it's hard to say who really is the strong one. Best would be, if positions are changed now and then.
I don't think it's necessary for a guy to always play the strong part.

CBtay01 · May 25, 2009, 05:57 PM

i too belive that it should be ok and to tell you the truth right now me and my boy friend have a bet going to see that 10 or more of the first 20 opinions will be in favor of ok is my guess lol hope i win

KingAnime · May 25, 2009, 06:50 PM

It's okay just as long as the weaker one in the relationship could except, but i think that most guys would rather prefer to be the stronger one in the relationship or the person who wears the pants as i always say.

aceman67 · May 25, 2009, 08:23 PM

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CBtay01 Otaku Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: A paradoxal world where nothing makes sense but in truth it does... confusing Posts: 153 Thanks: 44 Thanked 18 Times in 15 Posts	Guys vs. Girls ok so idk if i am the only one out but are i am not so um well you know how they always say that the guy is always the strong one in a relationship well i am seretly stronger than my boy friend but i dont want to tell him cus i know he'll dump me but the thing is Is it ok to be in a relationship with a girl if she is stronger than the guy or is it just demoralizing? __________________
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Ashes Newbie Join Date: May 2009 Location: Inside my head nod nod Posts: 9 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Guys vs. Girls of course it's okay! As long as two people love each other, no matter what their weaknesses, a relationship will still work. Everyone has their strong and weak points. And if the girl is stronger, she should whip her boyfriend into shape emotionally, phsycally, and mentally XD
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Scourge BLAH BLAH YOUR FACE!! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Oceanside CA Posts: 1,249 Thanks: 469 Thanked 166 Times in 147 Posts	Re: Guys vs. Girls In retrospect, it does not matter as long as the two of you love each other. In a relationship the guy or girl can eather play the "strong" roll. What matters is that BOTH have equal say in the relationship, and that "strong" roll will some times shift as the relationship goes on. At one point it can be the guy and at another it is the girl and then back and forth. This is normal as long as one or the other does not dominate the relationship. It does not matter who it is the "strong" one. __________________ SEE THE FUTURE WHILE YOU STILL HAVE HUMAN EYES!!
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EmoNightmareRose Wilde Beast Join Date: May 2008 Location: Ohtori Academy Posts: 689 Thanks: 44 Thanked 50 Times in 44 Posts	Re: Guys vs. Girls It's okay as long as both of you are okay with it. If a guy feels that he needs to be dominate and has a problem with women, don't get a strong girlfriend who'll whoop your ass. If a woman feel she has to be dominate, then don't date a dude who'll you'll compete with for control. But if there is someone who is shy or feels weaker and wants a dominate person then you can be dominate regardless of gender. If you guys are equal and comfortable, that's the best thing __________________
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CBtay01 Otaku Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: A paradoxal world where nothing makes sense but in truth it does... confusing Posts: 153 Thanks: 44 Thanked 18 Times in 15 Posts	Re: Guys vs. Girls i too belive that it should be ok and to tell you the truth right now me and my boy friend have a bet going to see that 10 or more of the first 20 opinions will be in favor of ok is my guess lol hope i win __________________
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KingAnime Otaku Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 145 Thanks: 1 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	Re: Guys vs. Girls It's okay just as long as the weaker one in the relationship could except, but i think that most guys would rather prefer to be the stronger one in the relationship or the person who wears the pants as i always say. __________________ In Brightest Day, In Blackest Night No Evil Shall Escape My Sight Let Those Who Worship Evil's Might Beware My Power Green Lanterns Might
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