ok thanks for the information about a friend keeping secrets. However, I wasn't being totally honest. the friend is more than that but someone very close to me. I know they want to keep their past behind them but its when I get told their past but SOMEONE else. I was more annoyed that they told me another person's secrets, going behind their back and telling someone things that they may not want to be told.
I'll change the title of the thread to make it more understandable.