Thread: I've got a dilemma...

lol id have no girlfriend if i did that. and i didnt win. it was a tie. remember?

the path of a good life isn't sunshine and butterfly, it will slam your face into the ground and forcing you to give up. it is just the same as life is, it is hard and always will be for everyone of us to experience. if you know what is right and you do it 100% and know that there will be challenges all the way. but truth to the matter of fact you are already close getting to the finish line and getting it, it's just the matter of time. just keep doing good and don't let anyone stop you of doing what is good for you. this happened to all people.

I'd just bring it up to her mother. Just ask her why she hates you so much, etc.
If you've been that nice to her and she still hates you then a civil confrontation's the only answer at this point :/

the confrontation is useless seeing as my girlfriend will not allow it to take place. i am not allowed to in any way be rude to her.

Originally Posted by starfire1036

the confrontation is useless seeing as my girlfriend will not allow it to take place. i am not allowed to in any way be rude to her.

I know exactly and absolutely how you feel because my girlfriends mom is exactly the same as that. not to mention her dad as well he left the whole family because I am going out with her but about a year later when he saw that I truly make her happy and all we do is hang when we are at her house he came around as for her mom she does talk a little crap so i must say brush it off and hint to her how much it hurts because they will come around it just takes time

Originally Posted by starfire1036

the confrontation is useless seeing as my girlfriend will not allow it to take place. i am not allowed to in any way be rude to her.

It doesn't have to be rude hence the "civil" part.

I was in love with this girl (yeah even fell in love once, just once) and after a while nothing. She wouldn't return my calls, nothing. Finally got a hold of her and she was going out with some boy who worked at a drug store, because her mother told her one evening that four years is too much of an age difference to overcome. Parents are probably more responsible for break ups than anything.