Ichigo_06

Hey as I sit around at the caffeteria in Job corps, I notice so many couples that the femal of the couple has the male go and get them something, (there are situations where the guy will do that too but not as often) I was wondering what you guys would do if you were sitting with your loved one at the table and they asked you to get something when you are both just sitting there? what if you were already going in that direction? and also what would you do if you were not planning to get up? me personally if I was already getting up from the table I would go get what they ask, but if I am just sitting there and peacfully eating I would tell her to get up and get it herself because her legs arent broken, you guys may think me an ass for doing this, I wouldnt blame you but unless their legs and or hands are broken I will not just get up and get something If I am not already going to get up. that is my oppinion what about you guys? what would you do?

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Spin Da Ish

hmmmm, for me, its always, " i can wait here all day, now get a move on!" All i can say is that im Way to lazy to fight back sometimes so i just annoy the person by doing what the other person asked for, but do it slowly and make it seem as annyoing as possible so they do it themselves

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For me it all depends on the situation. If that person asked me nicely then I would get that item or material for them, but if the don't ask me nicely then I won't do it at all. But then again if I have been with that person for a long time then I would just do it anyways. That person does know that I do expect something in return for doing something for them. Though it has been a while since I was with someone so I don't know what I would do. But like I said earlier that if that person asked me nicely then I would go and get that item even if I was just sitting their doing something else then them.

Miroku4444

If he doesn't want to sleep on the couch or expects to get any, he better go and do what she asks(If it aint that out of the question).


Do you have long lasting relationships with women/girls? Say that to your girlfriend, and thats a one way ticket to breakupsville. Telling a female to get it herself is just asking for trouble, and if you love her you better not say that.

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artist n the makin

You are absolutely right and most of the time women like it if men go out of their way to do things for them. It makes them feel special and loved.

Ichigo_06

yes you guys might be correct, but what if you have been with that woman for so long they have figured out how you work? they dont get mad at things you do, things you say, and know your reasonging? would you still just do what it was, droping everything your doing and just do it? or would you keep working on what you do? what if it was you in the situation of asking? would she/ or he just get up and do what you ask? or would they sit ont there butt and just do nothing?

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dude101

well if i was to get up, i would ask them if they would want anything. that way they can't really pester me when i get back.

also if i was in the middle of eating something or doing something and she asked me to get something it would really depend on my mood. if i'm in a playful tormenting mood i would act ignorant. like ask where i can get what she want, what does the thing look like, pretty much just ask obvious questions lol. but if i'm like happy and what not i would do it. but there is a limit to how many things she can ask, i mean she'll be lucky to get me up twice in one sitting.

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Arrianna

...and you tell her to "get up and get it herself because her legs arent broken"? Then whoever this fictional woman you are imagining is she is either a saint or has no self esteem.

Tell me or any woman I know the same thing and you will be dinning by yourself from then on because evidently your personal comfort is more important to you then anyone else. It is the little things that shows you care... or in this case don't care.

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Heartless_mage

well i have probably have the laziest girlfriend to ever live......

i just find that if you do wat she tells you to then that will stop a lot of fights......seriously

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Ichigo_06

ah see well the woman I refer to I would never really do that unless I am just to damn lazy anyways, but she is not fictional because I have her right now besides I am a nice guy may not seem that way to you guys, but I am normally with much debate and argue I will still get it, but it just depends. see she has seen my worst side and has taken alot from me and yet she is still with me to this day, we talk on the phone constantly (long distance) and still she is not budging, either way I here what you say, besides that is something I would tell my sister not her, however if I was to say it to her, and give her an explenation why, it wouldnt matter because I would still get it anyways, I am just too nice for my own good, and I guess in this post I am counter diccting myself. lol.

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P.R. Princess

i say i would do it no matter what. if i love them i would and i wouldnt expect anything out of them. because they asked so i will do it.

and i say that you shouldn't expect anything from them in return except for a thank you.

Cause if you love someone and have been with them then you would do anything to please them.

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