lovers and having there friends. - Page 2

Sazzy · Oct 18, 2006, 02:37 PM

i let my boyfriend had female mates because i know deep down we both love each other very much and really care for each other that there is a lot of trust there so we don't have to worry about talking to people of the opposite sex. Ok i would get annoyed if i found out my boyfriend was flirting with anything female because it would be classes miss using my trust.

*divine_punishment* · Oct 18, 2006, 02:42 PM

I believe that your significant other should have friends that are of the opposite sex. I DON'T think that they should call them "sexy." If you are worried that your boyfriend will cheat on you, the relationship isn't really working out, is it? Why don't you let that one go and hold out for another, better one?

For3v3r_Lost · Oct 20, 2006, 08:32 PM

Of course I let him have friends that's are females. As long as he won't do anything wrong behind my back, which I know he won't. I love him a lot and he pretty much has my trust. If you're not comfortable with your boyfriend thinking that a girl is sexy, let him know. If he says that they're just friends, I'm sure he's telling the truth because if he loves you, then he should be telling the truth. I dunno about your boyfriend because I don't know the whole situation, but yeah...don't get mad easily or jealous easily.

fma1012 · Oct 20, 2006, 08:40 PM

Lol, you should let them have friends that are the opposite sex because if you don't they can get really mad. Sigh it happen to a person I know. The guy was way too over protective and whenever the girl tried to talk another guy he would like beat the crap out of them. So she had to end break up with him. I mean if you have trust in him then its all good. ^^

Scooooter · Oct 20, 2006, 09:34 PM

You know from experience I've found not trusting your partner will most likely destroy a relationship. I also believe there is nothing wrong with your partner having friends of the opposite sex. Don't you have any guy friends that you find sexy. Now you sould be able to talk to your partner about anything so just explain your feelings, and anyone thats his friend you should be able to be friends with. If he says that he doesn't think thats agood idea he really isn't right for you.
I once dated a girl I say girl because she turned out to be very childish. She didn't trust me with anyone men or women. I was supposed to spend all my time with her. It was bad enough when she got a job the same place I worked, but then I was supposed to kick my roommates to the curb. Mainly because she felt I was going to meet another female through my friends. So as you could probably figure out I kicked her to the curb.
Ultimately this is going to be up to you. So think about the way feel an dtalk to your partner. Thats the only way its going to work out.

JefferyXie · Oct 21, 2006, 12:41 AM

Trust is really important 2 any relationship.its the only way dat lovers can maintain their luv n friendship with others.

mixed fighter girl · Oct 21, 2006, 09:52 AM

well i u know ur bf/gf well and u know they would never do anything like that then it okay but if u know they are a lil wild u might have to just keep an eye on them.u can't just tell them they can't have friends of opp sex cause then they just gonna cuss u out and break up with u.so it normal and okay to have opp sex friends.

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*Blade X* · Oct 21, 2006, 10:50 AM

true but men and women can never be just friends. They'll sleep with each other at one point or another. I mean sure there will always a couple of friends who dont sleep with each oother coz they have self control. other times there's always lust of a hot looking friend n so on

Sincere · Oct 28, 2006, 06:11 PM

It depends. If your boyfriend/girlfriend is uncomfortable with you having friends of the opposite sex so much as it nearly ruins the relationship, then you shouldn't. Besides, if a girl hints to a guy even once that she doesn't like the girls that he's hanging out with, he should know to ditch them. And it should be hard since the guy should love the girlfriend that much anyway to where it wouldn't bother him at all. Same for girls.

ordinateur · Oct 28, 2006, 11:02 PM

Well, I think that your partner can have friends from the opposite sex because it is normal for humans to be friends with girls and boys. If you think he is cheating on you, I think the best way for you is to ask him how does he consider his friendship between himself and those people and learn more about those people he considers as friends.

lostgirl · Oct 29, 2006, 01:13 AM

it's sad to hear that Udon't trust your boyfriend......even if he says that sme firned of him is sexy....just trust him...cuz other way you always will have this doubth that he may cheat on you.....and most of all if U don't like that he sais that just tell him that...communicate ..cuz is your boyfriend......good luck...by the way...and if he is your boyfrined ....if u realy feel that he is ...just simply trust him

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Sazzy Member of 22 yr old Club Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: In my imagination restricted by British Society! Posts: 1,835 Thanks: 7 Thanked 19 Times in 15 Posts Credits: 34,783	Re: lovers and having there friends. i let my boyfriend had female mates because i know deep down we both love each other very much and really care for each other that there is a lot of trust there so we don't have to worry about talking to people of the opposite sex. Ok i would get annoyed if i found out my boyfriend was flirting with anything female because it would be classes miss using my trust. __________________ FAVOURITE THREADS EXPLAIN why, or risk an infraction. Well Just one more sig won't hurt, right? how about another??? Sazzy-Bu.co.uk
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divine_punishment Shining Star Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Good question . . . where am I? Posts: 1,271 Thanks: 22 Thanked 27 Times in 22 Posts Credits: 59,274	Re: lovers and having there friends. I believe that your significant other should have friends that are of the opposite sex. I DON'T think that they should call them "sexy." If you are worried that your boyfriend will cheat on you, the relationship isn't really working out, is it? Why don't you let that one go and hold out for another, better one? __________________ Bite Me!
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For3v3r_Lost Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: My own little world Posts: 249 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 410	Re: lovers and having there friends. Of course I let him have friends that's are females. As long as he won't do anything wrong behind my back, which I know he won't. I love him a lot and he pretty much has my trust. If you're not comfortable with your boyfriend thinking that a girl is sexy, let him know. If he says that they're just friends, I'm sure he's telling the truth because if he loves you, then he should be telling the truth. I dunno about your boyfriend because I don't know the whole situation, but yeah...don't get mad easily or jealous easily. __________________ .:\|Myspace Profile\|.:.\|My Forum\|.:.\|My AO Gallery\|.:.\|My December\|:. "I love you with all my heart that I can't explain how much in words."
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fma1012 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: somewhere Posts: 470 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 2,023	Re: lovers and having there friends. Lol, you should let them have friends that are the opposite sex because if you don't they can get really mad. Sigh it happen to a person I know. The guy was way too over protective and whenever the girl tried to talk another guy he would like beat the crap out of them. So she had to end break up with him. I mean if you have trust in him then its all good. ^^ __________________ ThAnKs CaNdId FoR ThE SwEet SiG~
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Scooooter Newbie Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Grand Rapids, Michigan Posts: 20 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 110	Re: lovers and having there friends. You know from experience I've found not trusting your partner will most likely destroy a relationship. I also believe there is nothing wrong with your partner having friends of the opposite sex. Don't you have any guy friends that you find sexy. Now you sould be able to talk to your partner about anything so just explain your feelings, and anyone thats his friend you should be able to be friends with. If he says that he doesn't think thats agood idea he really isn't right for you. I once dated a girl I say girl because she turned out to be very childish. She didn't trust me with anyone men or women. I was supposed to spend all my time with her. It was bad enough when she got a job the same place I worked, but then I was supposed to kick my roommates to the curb. Mainly because she felt I was going to meet another female through my friends. So as you could probably figure out I kicked her to the curb. Ultimately this is going to be up to you. So think about the way feel an dtalk to your partner. Thats the only way its going to work out. __________________
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JefferyXie Shichibukai Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 613 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 310	Re: lovers and having there friends. Trust is really important 2 any relationship.its the only way dat lovers can maintain their luv n friendship with others.
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mixed fighter girl Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: where the true warriors fight Posts: 251 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,395	Re: lovers and having there friends. well i u know ur bf/gf well and u know they would never do anything like that then it okay but if u know they are a lil wild u might have to just keep an eye on them.u can't just tell them they can't have friends of opp sex cause then they just gonna cuss u out and break up with u.so it normal and okay to have opp sex friends. sisters before misters bros before hoes __________________ . I will fight until i find what i'm looking for...you can not judge me on my apperence I am a Warrior. If you have a problem with me..... then my blades will meet your neck.
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Blade X AO's Demon Slayer Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Protecting my loved one. Posts: 1,606 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,464	Re: lovers and having there friends. true but men and women can never be just friends. They'll sleep with each other at one point or another. I mean sure there will always a couple of friends who dont sleep with each oother coz they have self control. other times there's always lust of a hot looking friend n so on __________________ Thanks for the siggy Ky-lyrra
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Oct 28, 2006, 06:11 PM	#20 (permalink)
Sincere Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Justin's heart Posts: 307 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 364	Re: lovers and having there friends. It depends. If your boyfriend/girlfriend is uncomfortable with you having friends of the opposite sex so much as it nearly ruins the relationship, then you shouldn't. Besides, if a girl hints to a guy even once that she doesn't like the girls that he's hanging out with, he should know to ditch them. And it should be hard since the guy should love the girlfriend that much anyway to where it wouldn't bother him at all. Same for girls. __________________ $C:\Documents and Settings\Julia\My Documents\My Pictures\Siggy.jpg$ A white rose no longer alone I know who's heart it is to represent I didn't pick it, but i let it grow For he's the one that's heaven sent. : I love you, my White Rose.: The Poop Forums
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ordinateur Newbie Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 89 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 176	Re: lovers and having there friends. Well, I think that your partner can have friends from the opposite sex because it is normal for humans to be friends with girls and boys. If you think he is cheating on you, I think the best way for you is to ask him how does he consider his friendship between himself and those people and learn more about those people he considers as friends. __________________ Born to live, living to die..
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Oct 29, 2006, 01:13 AM	#22 (permalink)
lostgirl Newbie Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: somewhere.....nowhere Posts: 4 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 10	Re: lovers and having there friends. it's sad to hear that Udon't trust your boyfriend......even if he says that sme firned of him is sexy....just trust him...cuz other way you always will have this doubth that he may cheat on you.....and most of all if U don't like that he sais that just tell him that...communicate ..cuz is your boyfriend......good luck...by the way...and if he is your boyfrined ....if u realy feel that he is ...just simply trust him __________________ *always happy..always optimist...just lost*
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