Astaroth

To me marriage should be something wonderful and something that two people. i mean, it is a lot to think about.....the children(if you want them), maybe getting a new house.....and just living with a new person and sharing your space with him or her.......for me that is tough to get used to.

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Namida Goddess

i'm big on support for equality of the sexes so this really bothers me. a woman's place is not just in the kitchen, they can do anything a man can do and a lot more. i do admit there are things that guys can do that we cannot but for the most part we are equal. i don't think that marriage should tie down the man or woman in a sense that they have no purpose anymore. it is a commitment that both woman and man work together to make work because they genuinely care for one another

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Ritoru-chan

Gotta love feminist mothers. Not that there's anything wrong with feminists. Personally, I've never thought of marriage. Not because I believe it hinders women, but simply because I just never have. I've been in two relationships in my entire life so marriage has never really concerned myself with marriage at all, I never saw any real reason too.

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Lasura

Well marriadge really s**ks if you are catholic and can't get divorced, because everything may happen and people who think they are in love forever... come out to get cold to each other with time.

But you have to marry- as well as men can be shure we, women are not going to run away, we can be sure that they can't too. Marriage just puts on more responsibility...
I'll deffinetely marry- it just has to be the right person.

I'd suggest you to change religion to luteranic or any other protestantic religion (actually these days I don't know if that's important at all- if you're catholic or protestant- the same god!)- just in case. And marry when you feel that he's the one ^^

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Miroku4444

You can still be catholic and get a divorce. Its not like you need their approval to get one, or like they will kick you out for getting one. I guess it depends on how strict of a catholic you are.

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anime_being_god

Just remeber that marriage is only for those who are truly in love and truly believe that they can last forever with each other through all the problems that you might face down the road. If you have even a slight disbelife in that, your not ready

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maamon

well ... marriage is an important move in person's life ... people should only get married after they completely understand the responsibility behind it ... and make sure that the partner complete them ... so ... rushing is such things gets you nowhere but troubles and pain ...
marriage is just like everything in this life ... could be used in a good way ... when you find the right person who can make your life like heaven ... and it could be used in a bad way ... then your life is turned into hell ...
but ... after all ... it's you who makes decision ... you should find the right one ... so you won't regret it later ...
who said women place is the kitchen ... I know many many families where the man cooks and the woman works (doctor, nurse, typist, engineer, artist...)

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Sazzy

I believe that people should jump straight into marriage. Divorcing someone isn't some thing to be taken likely. Of course when its in situations such as domestic violence then I would suggest that a divorce be an option. Otherwise, If you get married then you have be prepared to work together and sort out things with each other to make the relationship work. People who just get married because its what people do in a relationship really need to re-think their reasons.

However, when it consists the factor of marriage weighing people down, in my opinion its not the case. Its showing one's trust for another and willingness to work through troubles and not finding the easy way out. Getting married isn't about one person dominating another, unless one is willing to within the privacy of one's home then its ok. When its in a marriage then one is expected to work out one's troubles and be able to support another person whom you are in a relationship with. Its not about just loving someone to the fullest but being able to support and work them too. There is no room for being selfish in a relationship as it will always end in a bad situation. So if someone realizes that after marriage then they should either be prepared to work out the differences or only result to divorce if NOTHING else works.

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BAUTIFULSOUL

okay in my opinion what your mom said about the men ruleing the women and we belonging in the kitchen just pissed me off. i am sooo against men being the superior and the women just being the follower. to me thats not the way it should go. it should be that the husband and wife should share the work and house work evenly because the women do have a life to live not a life to be runned by someone else.

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rksamurai

I love this idea of marriage.. I think it is a good thing to a relationship.. If they have sex AFTER you are married. There is something that both soul and body want and if it remains until it is fulfilled then the relationship to sturdy and it will last for many years to come. This is a really special bond..

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