Just so you know, I am in the army. I have been for 2 years now and still have 4 left.
I have already been to iraq once(In fact, i joined AO while in Iraq), and am happy to be back. And i understand that sometimes military wifes can over exagerate. And thats wrong. But so is a wife of a rich business owner who tries to act like she is better than everybody else. And by going on your theory, if i was to start a job at a factory that say, made cars, then my wife should accept and teach my kids that i could be killed by a car falling off the assembly line? Or a fire? As someone said, you can die in any job, or not on the job at all. I guess then everybody should just accept that they are going to die sooner or later and stop bitching. Right?