Thread: Mr and Miss right it's a myth

Why can't women fall for cartoonists .
Why do they always fall in love with the wrong men.
If there was such a thing as some one for everyone than why us cartoonists are single still and getting turned down each time?
I think the serious problem is that there is way too much competion out there.
too many guys looking for love.
I not the kind of guy who is not full of my self.
the #1 fear I have that keeps me from falling in love is the fear of getting killed by some other guy in the scene.
If I was talking to some single woman and some other guy comes in ,I perfer to leave.
and not talk to that woman ever again.
I hate competion.

Originally Posted by Sazzy

Can I be honest here??? Manga Artist... this is really boarder line Journal material. Nearly every thread you have made, its been about the negative side of life, almost like an depressed emotional person who can't fathom the concept of actually find something happy to talk about because one's life is just full of negativity due to one's lack of seeing things from another perspective. I used to really think negatively and sometimes I still do. But the point is, GET OVER IT!!! but its not like you ever listen to me so I might as well stop wasting me time trying to tell a thick headed person any thing.

Ohhh and personally, as someone who is going to get married, I find it personally offensive when someone tells me that I am lying about how I feel. Ok I might not be married. But if you are going to blatantly tell me that I am making it all up and that every thing you say is "ALWAYS" wrong then you won't be standing for very long at all.



GAAAAAAAAAAAAG

I don't think any girl is going to really love a real life Marvin (from Hitchikers Guide) because constant depressed isn't that excited and really, if people can only really put theirselves first before others, then one's lack of compassion and thoughtfulness is NOT a turn on.

You really need to face the truth out there.
Competion is a serious problem and a very very serious threat.
Most men think thier so mucho just to impress women.
I don't like to deal with competion.

Why do cartoonist have to be the ones that dont find love.
I know many cartoonist that have husbands and wife. Just becaseu your a cartoonist and you have found love doesn't mean that every other cartoonist hasnt'.
You keep steryo typing everyting when your just getting in the way of yourself.
I mean you say your afraid of competition well that may be the problem.
so instead of looking at the bad of everything you should look at the good. There are many women who would love a creative and imaginative man. Its just a matter of looking around the being confindent in yourself.

Well Some times I let my work speak for me, I'm not much for going to woman and saying Hi I'm so and so.
breaking the ice is a game of chance,other men can be very out raged and be very jeaous. Love seeking game is like playing a slot machine, either you get a jack pot or you don't. I have resisted to rejection now from the all the let downs in my life time. If a woman falls for me good if not I couldn't care less, . I had 1 one bad date and I had dismiss her A.S.P.
Why? Because she kept flirting with other men and she threw food at me and she insulted me and she kept talking about this other guy she like so much.
her family verbly abused me, so I told her LOOK YOUR NOT WORTHLY OF ME.
IT"S OVER WITH . GOOD BYE.
she was worthless and unloving.
after that Miss right was considered dead after that.
Like I said Miss right and some one for everyone is an old folk tale.
just look at the news about what people are doing these days ..
don't believe what married people tell you , thier just trying to get your hopes up.

Women Look, Jocks and sports is out Anime is in so get your act stright and go for the right guy.
any man who too in to sports and body building and into mucho is not real a man.

Alright I kinda skipped a few messages on the second page since it seemed to be the same points of view from page 1.

Life can be harsh and cruel but guess what if you think the same way your only letting yourself down... hell I used to be a negative guy myself I came to the conclusion that if I stayed that way then ultimately who would want to be with me besides people who have the same issues which isn't going to help me out one bit... being negative doesn't attract people honestly.

Well there isn't a misses or mister right out there I'm gonna tell you that now that 1 in the whole world is a load of crap, but it does have a special meaning to it to me that there is a woman or man out there for you and if he or she is special enough to make you feel that way then you've found " misses " or " mister " right!

I think we are attracted to a few things from a person sexual feelings, intellectuality, and mystery/bizarre ( this would be a thing which the other person doesn't have in common with you, but this makes you " intrigued " )

No one is perfect so don't waste your time finding that kind of person but rather find a person who will understand you and love you unconditionally. There will be fights but the reason for that is we have different opinions on subjects we were obviously raised differently so we can't be the same or think the same always can we? Otherwise we'd be a boring bunch right?

Please consider that not all the people are the same and that there are people out there for you, your going to need to look for yourself without masking yourself if you get what I mean.

Originally Posted by Manga artist

Why can't women fall for cartoonists .
Why do they always fall in love with the wrong men.
If there was such a thing as some one for everyone than why us cartoonists are single still and getting turned down each time?
I think the serious problem is that there is way too much competion out there.
too many guys looking for love.
I not the kind of guy who is not full of my self.
the #1 fear I have that keeps me from falling in love is the fear of getting killed by some other guy in the scene.
If I was talking to some single woman and some other guy comes in ,I perfer to leave.
and not talk to that woman ever again.
I hate competion.
You really need to face the truth out there.
Competion is a serious problem and a very very serious threat.
Most men think thier so mucho just to impress women.
I don't like to deal with competion.

Duh , well maybe you have some kind of history behind the negative stuff but not everyone thinks this way....reality bites it's true but here is the thing not all girls like the kind of guy you described the hygenically challenged (lols)...mr and ms right is a myth and no such thing usually we get attracted to certain qualities if the relationship works it takes two to work at it and tango. i can say that there is no such thing as a Mister right for me only a Mister made to measure because we will both do what it takes to make the relationship work. it is hard enough to make it work without too many people saying this and that about our relationship and well negativity never really helps. and ... if you don't make the effort then i guess you have not met your one match i guess.

this is just an opinion okays? Peace

Originally Posted by Manga artist

Women Look, Jocks and sports is out Anime is in so get your act stright and go for the right guy.
any man who too in to sports and body building and into mucho is not real a man.

If I did EVER want your advise to go for the right guy, then I don't think I would be myself. Everyone has their preference in characteristics that attracts them to other people. I am not someone who goes solely on looks, I prefer lies under the surface. So for me to date someone like you, which I have because he also thought he was what every women wanted in a man. When really, you obviously don't have a clue and too close minded.

Originally Posted by PhoenixSara

Duh , well maybe you have some kind of history behind the negative stuff but not everyone thinks this way....reality bites it's true but here is the thing not all girls like the kind of guy you described the hygenically challenged (lols)...mr and ms right is a myth and no such thing usually we get attracted to certain qualities if the relationship works it takes two to work at it and tango. i can say that there is no such thing as a Mister right for me only a Mister made to measure because we will both do what it takes to make the relationship work. it is hard enough to make it work without too many people saying this and that about our relationship and well negativity never really helps. and ... if you don't make the effort then i guess you have not met your one match i guess.

this is just an opinion okays? Peace

Who the heck wants to find some one when competion is too impossable to handle.
It's not worth getting sock in the head by out raged jeaous boyfriend.
besides love is meant for the teens anyways.
there's no negitive about , it's the cold hard true facts that when you think it's mr, or miss right
you get treated like crap.
you started being friends and sudden he or she is with this other guy or girl making out and making love.
your friendship to him or her don't mean worth crap, and what about you? out in cold you are that's what.
COMPETION! and I ask you , Who can you trust with a relationship?
Mr.and Miss right guilty as charge.....