Are you the youngest sazzy? Parents are usually hardest on the youngest. All i can say is get a good job, start saving, and get the hell out.
Rules like this have always been in place for me, and I seem to be the only child effected by it. I know I am their only daughter but when they try to intervene with my choices in life its a little hard to try and do what I want to do.
I have tried to talk to my mother about the situation saying that I am with my boyfriend and it isn't going to change because she says so. But that was all I was able to say before I went off into my room because I got too angry. I know she might want to protect but when its my life I have to make some mistakes on my own. Like I did around a year ago and she knows about it and she should know I won't make the same mistake twice.
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Are you the youngest sazzy? Parents are usually hardest on the youngest. All i can say is get a good job, start saving, and get the hell out.
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well sazzy my mum and dad arnt really like that they will tell me simply what i can and cant do... like ho my self around ect ( but im not like that) but one way to get out of it is to show them that u dont need them to baby u ect sazzy im guessing there doing that more now cos ur growing up and leaving and they just dont want that......
i to dont know what your going though. my rents would rather have nothing to do with me then to put rule on my life. even if they did i would not listen to them any way.
Tanks zyta
I think with your case, it's because you're their youngest daughter. The belief that males can protect themselves better than females will always exist. All parents probably view this as a fact.
I think your parents need to learn that just because you're a female doesn't mean you can't look after yourself. Maybe they're just trying to protect their "precious little daughter" - parents can get really sentimental, especially when you're at an age where you can and will leave them.
I'm the middle sibling as well, but I have it a lot easier than my younger sister, who literally can't go anywhere without me.
We're only one year apart.
My parents barely trust me and always think that I have something to do with it when something goes wrong. Does anyone have a problem with this? I'm just wondering what happened that lead to your parent's not trusting you and how you got your parents trust back.
Thanks lifeforce! (:
I'd actually say my parents are the one's who trust me too much, and I stab them in the back by not keeping my word 100% of the time. Teenagers such as myself can be like that, and deep deep in my heart i feel regret but would never be able to confess to my parents, because, since they trust me, they'd be devastated.
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