princesslady

Hi everyone, i wanted to know because im curious, do you think a marraige or relationship only works if the passion never dies out? Today on lifetime(yea i watch it, the movies is hot), the subject was relationsips, and does it only survive on passion or does it keep getting fueled back up by sex every now and then. Some lady named katie, the host lady or whoever, said it does keep the relationship hot and if there is no passion the relationship would get boring and soon tire out.
do you agree? let me now. thanks.

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TaurusDemon23

Passion is one of the most needed things for a successful relationship. Once that dies, the relationship usually follows suit.

princesslady

why is that? i now that if they really love each oter the would still be togwether.

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HolderOfTheDarkChalice

i agree you need passion but you need imagantion also because
passion alone isnt enough sure it great but even passion get dulled
after a while you need imagantion to keep the sparks going

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TaurusDemon23

Boredom in a relationship...........Not good.

princesslady

i guess. but in a relationship i will be in, if i trust men gan, i will be very energetic and very passionate t my lover, if he isnt the same way, we have a problem

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HolderOfTheDarkChalice

true it has to be 50/50 in the relationship and trust is a must in the relationship
i mean what good is giving the passion and devotion and the love and every part of you being to them if there isnt trust

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Tbaism

I thought it was proven that a healthy and sexually active couple, either married or not, compared to other relationships who were not, was usually stronger and most likely to withstand the outcome of time. I believe that good sex/great can definentally improve a relationship.

After years you don't necesarrily get bored, but use to things. Routine starts to fall into place and good sex to spice things up can be ocnsidered spontaneous and a well received aspect of things.

Since I think passion and sex are two completly different things... good sex can get u the starting line, but passion will get you to finish. Wihtout passion, there is no relationship really..just compatability.

Spymonk

Lets say a relationship has ten points it can be judged on then passion is one but the other nine is the ones that make the impact on how good the passion is and how long it lasts ..
So all the points in a relationship is important there is not one that exceeds the others in importancy because that is how woman work.
Woman needs reasurance ,support,comfort,the feeling of security, communication, laughter, and a outlet for stress and leisure time.[I call it me time]
So let me tell u the truth the chance that all these points is satisfied completely is 0% so yeah most ppl just go with the flow if u are lucky and have a partner man of woman that is pretty set on satisfaction u have a problem otherwise things can go pretty smooth.

So Boys and men u need to pay close attention to the woman u try to satisfy because althought they all woman they not all the same some need more of the one than the other...

HolderOfTheDarkChalice

thats true also its like a dance really you know the passion and the love you have to have rythem or the passion in the relationship wil be awkward
thats a simpler way of putting it.

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Tbaism

Women aren't the only ones who need the number of things you posted. Men need them as well and probably more. Considering that men are usually mommas boys, in later life they try to find a woman to match the description of such...they tend to look for what can be a foundation. Both sides need these, it isn't just one or the other.

Since I couldn't understand most of what you said though, I may have seen your emssage unclearly.

From 1-10...there are a lot more complex options than "me time" and "me time" should only be 1 point...not a great number o things. The person themselves are what matters most. Personality, intelligence, sex, compatability, speech, things like that and "me time", fold together into one to create a human being. If you can't even be around that person, always catering to their every whim, than you probably won't even be in a relationship in the first place.

You need passion to start it, you need passion to end it.