Polygamy

*RayMe* · Feb 16, 2008, 10:12 AM

Hmmm i wonder what the folks here thinks about polygamy... yes.. marriage of a person to more than one,... most here is catholic... so i bet there would be a lot that would oppose this idea..

Im a muslim and polygamy of up to four wives is allowed... not more than that

So... do you think that marrying to more than one person is something bad? Whats your opinion in this matter? ^^ if you have an opinion.. state your reason..

I will slowly contribute ideas as there is feedbacks

@ sub questions
-what would you feel if you are involved in a poligamy?
-Is there poligamy in gay relationship?
-Do you believe that all the ones in the relationship can cooperate?

aceman67 · Feb 16, 2008, 10:36 AM

Move to debate and discuss, since this WILL get heated.

In most countries around the world, Polygamy is illegal, regardless of religious beliefs. Doesn't really matter what we think.

*RayMe* · Feb 16, 2008, 10:50 AM

Ahh thanks acey~! ^^

Hmm so thats your opinion huh... what about personal opinion? Do you have any? None at all about it?

Ever thought of having more than one wives at the same time?

Do you think having more than one companion for life is better? come on

BrokenLover101 · Feb 16, 2008, 10:53 AM

Well, I believe that there is no reason to have 4 wifes. You should love one person with all your heart and spend the rest of your life with that one person... only that one person because.

but... it depends on the situation.

aceman67 · Feb 16, 2008, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by RayMe

Ahh thanks acey~! ^^

Hmm so thats your opinion huh... what about personal opinion? Do you have any? None at all about it?

Ever thought of having more than one wives at the same time?

Do you think having more than one companion for life is better? come on

My opinion is as follows: Since I'm mormon, polygamy was brought about to take care of Widows and Orphans after the persecutions and the trek to Utah killed of most of the men in the early days of the church. It was then abolished when there was no more need for it. Also, only men who had the means to support more then one wife and their family were allowed to do so.

Since its abolished, its One man, One Wife. What other people do, thats their business and not mine, and I don't mettle with things that aren't my business.

*Arrianna* · Feb 16, 2008, 11:17 AM

Personally I am against Polygamy since I have watched it NOT work. Scientifically the majority of people is incapable of carrying on more then one relationship at that personal level at a time. As a result there will always be a person in the marriage that is devalued. No one deserves that. Marriage is sacred and should be treated as such by all parties. Now I do understand that there are circumstances that abridge that, where there is real need, but those are and should be an exception. In fact since you mentioned your religion in my religion it is only appropriate when God himself has approved it. That is how serious we consider marriage to be.

@ sub questions
-what would you feel if you are involved in a poligamy?
I would never do it. I have seen my friends who grew up in a polygamist family have their lives destroyed by it.

-Is there poligamy in gay relationship?
I believe that is called Fornication not Polygamy.

-Do you believe that all the ones in the relationship can cooperate?
Rarely. Very, very, rarely.

Isn't that the reason that Mohammad actually advised against it? That is what the records I read said anyway. Paraphrase: "Don't do it, but if you must no more then four."

!The GunGrave of Trigun · Feb 16, 2008, 01:08 PM

I think its wrong you should be marryed to only 1 person showing your love for them polygamy is just a way to have sex .

BrokenLover101 · Feb 16, 2008, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by The GunGrave of Trigun

I think its wrong you should be marryed to only 1 person showing your love for them polygamy is just a way to have sex .

Yep Yep Yep. That's what i think too but some people don't mind so i also think that if that's what they want then whatever.

It's their decision. It's not up to us to pass judgement on anyone. Do we (I) think it's right? no but it's really not any of our business as long as we aren't involved in it.

!The GunGrave of Trigun · Feb 16, 2008, 01:27 PM

I dont think its right and its not natural its kinda of being like a hooker would you agree to me on that as a women in one of those marraiges its not right.

BrokenLover101 · Feb 16, 2008, 01:29 PM

It's not right but like i said, it's their choice whether they want to be in a relationship like that or not.

!The GunGrave of Trigun · Feb 16, 2008, 01:33 PM

Yes it is and we all understand you saying that but this post is to tell what you think of this so we are suppose to tell what we think k.

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aceman67 Apathetic Bastard Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Coalhurst Alberta, Canada Posts: 1,721 Thanks: 3 Thanked 27 Times in 22 Posts Credits: 29,838	Re: Polygamy Move to debate and discuss, since this WILL get heated. In most countries around the world, Polygamy is illegal, regardless of religious beliefs. Doesn't really matter what we think. __________________ Please, in the name of all that is holy and good, Raptor Jesus, Read the RULES. I think; therefore you are : Xfire : Art Portfolio : DevART : AnimePaper : SheezyART : Outpost10F :
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RayMe 1 )3^^( )N Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Somewhere i would love to leave right now for somewhere better... Posts: 3,589 Thanks: 54 Thanked 26 Times in 23 Posts Credits: 58,560	Re: Polygamy Ahh thanks acey~! ^^ Hmm so thats your opinion huh... what about personal opinion? Do you have any? None at all about it? Ever thought of having more than one wives at the same time? Do you think having more than one companion for life is better? come on __________________ Legion Ketsueki Lives on~!! The best ever Lasura~! >>>myspace<<<
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BrokenLover101 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Atchison.. Posts: 223 Thanks: 36 Thanked 21 Times in 20 Posts Credits: 10,542	Re: Polygamy Well, I believe that there is no reason to have 4 wifes. You should love one person with all your heart and spend the rest of your life with that one person... only that one person because. but... it depends on the situation. __________________ *\\ I'm done playing your games //* *\\ So go away and leave me alone //* Last edited by BrokenLover101; Feb 16, 2008 at 12:08 PM.
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Arrianna Lady Barronmore Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 3,012 Thanks: 8 Thanked 34 Times in 31 Posts Credits: 37,699	Re: Polygamy Personally I am against Polygamy since I have watched it NOT work. Scientifically the majority of people is incapable of carrying on more then one relationship at that personal level at a time. As a result there will always be a person in the marriage that is devalued. No one deserves that. Marriage is sacred and should be treated as such by all parties. Now I do understand that there are circumstances that abridge that, where there is real need, but those are and should be an exception. In fact since you mentioned your religion in my religion it is only appropriate when God himself has approved it. That is how serious we consider marriage to be. @ sub questions -what would you feel if you are involved in a poligamy? I would never do it. I have seen my friends who grew up in a polygamist family have their lives destroyed by it. -Is there poligamy in gay relationship? I believe that is called Fornication not Polygamy. -Do you believe that all the ones in the relationship can cooperate? Rarely. Very, very, rarely. Isn't that the reason that Mohammad actually advised against it? That is what the records I read said anyway. Paraphrase: "Don't do it, but if you must no more then four." __________________ l Stone Hold l Now We're Cooking! l
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!The GunGrave of Trigun Banned Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 1,099 Thanks: 4 Thanked 23 Times in 22 Posts Credits: 21,401	Re: Polygamy I think its wrong you should be marryed to only 1 person showing your love for them polygamy is just a way to have sex .
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!The GunGrave of Trigun Banned Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 1,099 Thanks: 4 Thanked 23 Times in 22 Posts Credits: 21,401	Re: Polygamy I dont think its right and its not natural its kinda of being like a hooker would you agree to me on that as a women in one of those marraiges its not right.
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BrokenLover101 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Atchison.. Posts: 223 Thanks: 36 Thanked 21 Times in 20 Posts Credits: 10,542	Re: Polygamy It's not right but like i said, it's their choice whether they want to be in a relationship like that or not. __________________ *\\ I'm done playing your games //* *\\ So go away and leave me alone //*
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!The GunGrave of Trigun Banned Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 1,099 Thanks: 4 Thanked 23 Times in 22 Posts Credits: 21,401	Re: Polygamy Yes it is and we all understand you saying that but this post is to tell what you think of this so we are suppose to tell what we think k.
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