Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me out

awesomeparty12 · Sep 11, 2008, 12:20 PM

i want to know if you just broke up with your girlfriend if it is cool to instantly start dating another girl???????

*Peach_follows* · Sep 11, 2008, 12:55 PM

I don't know if its "cool" but its certainly possible. I've had guys break up with me and instantly start dating another chick. With that said.... From the ex's prespective it is quite hurtful. Sorta makes one believe that the loss of their reltionship with you isn't worth a greiving process. Besides I think someone should take time to heal from a break-up before jumping into a relationship.... But that is just me.

Theres is also the scenario where a person hooks up with someone that they've been wanting to date even while they were in the previous relationship (that may even be the reason for the break up) In that scenario the fast hook up is more understandable... but still hurtful to the ex.

Either way I wouldn't say you're "in between relationships" if you've already comitted to another person.... then you're IN a new relationship.

awesomeparty12 · Sep 11, 2008, 01:23 PM

no i haven't started going out with her yet i just wanted someone's opinion so that i don't hurt my Ex so thank you very much for your opinion i will help me out alot

Scourge · Sep 11, 2008, 02:59 PM

When my ex and I broke up I was devistated and after a while I started to look for other girls. I then realized what I was doing was trying to make up for my lose and wasnt aiming for some one inparticular, just some one regardless who they were. Which is a very bad and wrong thing to do as it goes against my morels. When I realized this I looked at my self and said "Wow, I was pretty F***ing puthetic." But thats over and now I am healing. I still long to find some one out there, just not sure if I am ready yet because the reason why my ex and I broke up in the first place was really really bad and has left exstreamly deep wunds on every level of who I am. I still love her and I know she still loves me... Thats the traggety of it all. I just hope she can have a happy life now.

NeoDeath90 · Sep 12, 2008, 09:04 AM

well the way i see it is in my situation, if my girl breaks up with me, i don;t think i'm going to be able to find another one any time soon. So therefore, a grieving process would be needed.

In your case though, i would suggest at least waiting a little while, to at least show respect to your former love.

And if not, at least try to be friends with her unless things ended badly.

Hostil Spike · Sep 17, 2008, 09:04 PM

Just don't try n do what my ex did to me.

"Hey I think we should just be friends"
*goes out with another guy who screws her then dumps her"
"I think I was wrong before, I love you"

Yeah like hell was she getting back with me ¬_¬

viper11025 · Sep 17, 2008, 09:40 PM

Don't try it, its asking for faliure, trust me.......just trust me.
K?

Heavenhanced · Sep 18, 2008, 08:50 AM

Dating with two girls? It sounds great... and it could be better if they never meet each other. In otehr case... run off.

awesomeparty12 · Sep 18, 2008, 11:05 AM

well i figure that its not worth the pain you give the other if you break-up with one wait for the other cause no one wants to hurt one another but just give time to grieve its just respectful to wait

PhoenixSara · Sep 19, 2008, 05:55 PM

You have to have a grieving process and closure with the one you broke up with or else the pain won't go away and you'll just end up dating one after the other and not have a real relationship. and you'll find yourself asking bout certain stuff why you keep starting a relationship that doesn't last.

Natasha · Sep 20, 2008, 06:13 AM

sure it is dude!!!!
When you broke up with a girl you just sulk?
no way! get a new girl then and move on with your life!!

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awesomeparty12 Otaku Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: i stay in the bottomless void where only hatred brews and sin is strong Posts: 360 Thanks: 103 Thanked 51 Times in 46 Posts Credits: 5,178	Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me out i want to know if you just broke up with your girlfriend if it is cool to instantly start dating another girl??????? __________________ the love i share across the world brightens my days and even my nights all with love can follow me through the gates of heavens she flew......
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Peach_follows Moving right along.... Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Friendly Fridley Posts: 1,166 Thanks: 62 Thanked 64 Times in 56 Posts Credits: 3,643	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me I don't know if its "cool" but its certainly possible. I've had guys break up with me and instantly start dating another chick. With that said.... From the ex's prespective it is quite hurtful. Sorta makes one believe that the loss of their reltionship with you isn't worth a greiving process. Besides I think someone should take time to heal from a break-up before jumping into a relationship.... But that is just me. Theres is also the scenario where a person hooks up with someone that they've been wanting to date even while they were in the previous relationship (that may even be the reason for the break up) In that scenario the fast hook up is more understandable... but still hurtful to the ex. Either way I wouldn't say you're "in between relationships" if you've already comitted to another person.... then you're IN a new relationship. __________________ If you don't like my peaches. Don't shake my tree. http://www.myspace.com/j1gg481tt
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Scourge Devoted Otaku Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Southern California Posts: 626 Thanks: 210 Thanked 87 Times in 75 Posts Credits: 45,584	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me When my ex and I broke up I was devistated and after a while I started to look for other girls. I then realized what I was doing was trying to make up for my lose and wasnt aiming for some one inparticular, just some one regardless who they were. Which is a very bad and wrong thing to do as it goes against my morels. When I realized this I looked at my self and said "Wow, I was pretty F*ing puthetic." But thats over and now I am healing. I still long to find some one out there, just not sure if I am ready yet because the reason why my ex and I broke up in the first place was really really bad and has left exstreamly deep wunds on every level of who I am. I still love her and I know she still loves me... Thats the traggety of it all. I just hope she can have a happy life now. __________________ WE ARE NOTHING MORE THEN BROKEN MACHINES**
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NeoDeath90 Teetsmeister the Terrible Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Somers NY Posts: 872 Thanks: 14 Thanked 73 Times in 69 Posts Credits: 33,154	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me well the way i see it is in my situation, if my girl breaks up with me, i don;t think i'm going to be able to find another one any time soon. So therefore, a grieving process would be needed. In your case though, i would suggest at least waiting a little while, to at least show respect to your former love. And if not, at least try to be friends with her unless things ended badly. __________________ Thanks a lot, Yasmine. Concept artists needed for a Dark Brotherhood themed Oblivion Mod. Click the site for more info. http://www.modcraft.net/community/in...howtopic=10727 My dragons like being clicked on! Please don't disappoint them.
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Hostil Spike Newbie Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Reading Posts: 47 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 1,946	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me Just don't try n do what my ex did to me. "Hey I think we should just be friends" *goes out with another guy who screws her then dumps her" "I think I was wrong before, I love you" Yeah like hell was she getting back with me ¬_¬
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viper11025 Under Surveilance Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Ughh....Ask? Posts: 366 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 664	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me Don't try it, its asking for faliure, trust me.......just trust me. K?
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Heavenhanced Newbie Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 56 Thanks: 3 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Credits: 829	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me Dating with two girls? It sounds great... and it could be better if they never meet each other. In otehr case... run off.
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awesomeparty12 Otaku Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: i stay in the bottomless void where only hatred brews and sin is strong Posts: 360 Thanks: 103 Thanked 51 Times in 46 Posts Credits: 5,178	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me well i figure that its not worth the pain you give the other if you break-up with one wait for the other cause no one wants to hurt one another but just give time to grieve its just respectful to wait __________________ the love i share across the world brightens my days and even my nights all with love can follow me through the gates of heavens she flew......
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PhoenixSara Fallen Angel Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: I am in between Heaven's Gate and Hell. Posts: 730 Thanks: 31 Thanked 47 Times in 44 Posts Credits: 28,333	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me You have to have a grieving process and closure with the one you broke up with or else the pain won't go away and you'll just end up dating one after the other and not have a real relationship. and you'll find yourself asking bout certain stuff why you keep starting a relationship that doesn't last. __________________ Angels are not supposed to fall in-love, unfortunately this one did. Clan Rainstorm 2nd Company, Kunoichi Leader PhoenixSara Myspace / Click Me/Atlantis RPG/Rules and FAQ/MY BLOG / AF
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Natasha Newbie Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: South Africa Posts: 69 Thanks: 3 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts Credits: 2,189	Re: Is it possible to be in between relationships and still have a girlfriend help me sure it is dude!!!! When you broke up with a girl you just sulk? no way! get a new girl then and move on with your life!! __________________
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