when ur 18 ur just some guy wanting to get out of ur pops house 22 ur still in college and u have alot of responsabilidades
and marrige is a bigger responsability.
Did anyone ever here of the term... ABORTION. Really its not a bad thing, un wanted pregnancys can be taken care of. It doesnt cost that much, come to think of it i dont even think it cost anything. Its confidential. And its a life saver/life taker. But still if u have kids at the age of 14 u should seriously have an abortion. Kids that are born from a mother at taht young of an age are either Retarted, deformed, or medically sensitive (asma, hemophelia, weak immune system) 18-22 is a perfect age. I mean really, who goes to college anyways.
Dont bring god into this. Obviosly if you cant handle ur kids. If your emotionaly, mentally, physically, or financially unstabel, YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE KIDS. If you do, u SHOULD get an abortion. You cant handle it, it will ruin ur life eand ull end up having to give ur kid away, going insane and killing ur self or your child, or will end up homeless or very poor. Abortion is the only way to go.
u shouldnt involve mental prob either
cuz most of the times when this hapends is with normal people that are nuts for snusnu
no no!!!! >//< you musn't have kids at 20.......your whole life will be ruined!!! i'm not having children because i dont like em :nono: ...i mean...im fine with em....and they love me n all...but noooo....then what goes with my life??? no clubbing....no anything...and i want to travel....i want to live in japan for a few years and then just go to like...egypt and antarctica and all those wonderful places.....i have so much in my mind for my future...and if i have kids...well...damn...there it goes....i'll just have to wave at it as it passes by me.....
i mean..you're right with the whole, "having children when you're young so you can see your decendants"-or i think thats what they're called...but....we have a life too!! and i must live it to the fullest because i only have one! i mean...i dont even think i'll be out of college yet....and having a kid before i even get a professional job.....>.< oiy....anyways....i say no kids until you WANT to settle down..i believe late 20s or 30s...but thats it. over 35 is passing the limit.
and that is what i believe.