Rejection and mistreatment

Manga artist · Feb 05, 2008, 04:43 PM

Have any of you been rejected and mistreated?
Rejection is worse but being mistreated by the one you love.
I know being cheated on is the worse thing of all.
So would you destory the things he or she give so you have memory of that person? I myself would not want anything that reminds me of that hurt that hurt me. How would take care of this problem of memories of the person that hurt you?

!The GunGrave of Trigun · Feb 05, 2008, 04:54 PM

yes i have had both of those things happen to me and its a teribble thing when it happens a good 10 years of my life i had those happen to me by my mom and my dad was able to help me and that made me have angry problems and i would scream and bully sometimes but not much that was only when i was really bad.

*dark angel swordsman* · Feb 05, 2008, 04:58 PM

Both have happened to me as a Student in Junior High School.
Rejection of my feelings, opinions--everything that mattered. People just threw it away and laughed it off in my face.
Same goes with the mistreatment.
I was often teased, made fun of, beaten up for being different in my own way and never seemed to fit into anything. Even the normally "creepy" people rarely spoke to me.
I really hated that time of my life. But things have changed.

Manga artist · Feb 05, 2008, 04:58 PM

It makes you sick to your stomach I know that,
Even being misled is bad too.
I hated when a girl kept saying another guys name in my prences.
I hated when others hurt others I wish I knew voodoo so I can punish them.

!The GunGrave of Trigun · Feb 05, 2008, 05:03 PM

Well that never happened to me i was called things but i was popluar not cause of my looks because i was fat and thats why i was called things but lots of my friends because i was popular and i would be like what ever but I was popular because i was the funny guy and everybody would laugh and i did not take crap from nobody and i was strong.

Astaroth · Feb 05, 2008, 05:04 PM

Yes....I have been mistreated during lat year when i found out that my ex was cheating on me......
And do you know what the first thing that came to my mind........revenge....I made his life as miserable as hell...by not even paying attention to him and pretending that he does not exist in my life....of course..some of it involved a little bit of violence..but what can he except when he decides to make the stupidest mistake in his life by cheating on a Russian chick....wrong move there buddy..and yes....pain did come.......but I did not dwell on it and moved on .....because I know that hanging on to the pain and memories will only make things much worse for you.....

Manga artist · Feb 05, 2008, 05:11 PM

Good for you,
being cheated on by a mate is lowest thing on earth I hope you sued him and devoiced him.

Astaroth · Feb 05, 2008, 05:14 PM

Quote:

Good for you,
being cheated on by a mate is lowest thing on earth I hope you sued him and devoiced him.

LOL....I did neither since I am only eighteen years old...and I was not married to him or anything like that....but thank you.....

Manga artist · Feb 05, 2008, 05:19 PM

You could at least egg him to death nothing like throwing raw eggs on him. I hope you destoryed everything about him like love letters and photos, Why would anyone keep anything of a low down scum of the earth.
It's best to destory or trash some thing of a bad past and start a new.

!Akura13 · Feb 05, 2008, 06:23 PM

ah, yes. All of those things has happened to me. My cousin being a (to put it nicely) a stupid meanie, been cheated on oh so many times, and rejected even more. What I do is just try to forget all about what happened and move on. I get rid of all the thing that reminded me of them and just try my best to lose all my thoughts of the person. Alos, I talk to my friends who help me out alot through my problems! Shoot, if it weren't for my friends, I would've gone crazy a very long time ago!

Manga artist · Feb 05, 2008, 08:53 PM

I felt good destorying my former friend's note and stuff.
and it eraces the memories of them from your mind.

Feb 05, 2008, 04:43 PM	#1 (permalink)
Manga artist Upcoming Legend Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Studio Motoko Posts: 537 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 5,863	Rejection and mistreatment Have any of you been rejected and mistreated? Rejection is worse but being mistreated by the one you love. I know being cheated on is the worse thing of all. So would you destory the things he or she give so you have memory of that person? I myself would not want anything that reminds me of that hurt that hurt me. How would take care of this problem of memories of the person that hurt you? __________________ http://www.animeonline.net/faq.php?f..._faqsignatures -- Hassun
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!The GunGrave of Trigun Banned Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 1,099 Thanks: 4 Thanked 23 Times in 22 Posts Credits: 21,401	Re: Rejection and mistreatment yes i have had both of those things happen to me and its a teribble thing when it happens a good 10 years of my life i had those happen to me by my mom and my dad was able to help me and that made me have angry problems and i would scream and bully sometimes but not much that was only when i was really bad.
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dark angel swordsman God of Destruction Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 1,839 Thanks: 1 Thanked 5 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 13,221	Re: Rejection and mistreatment Both have happened to me as a Student in Junior High School. Rejection of my feelings, opinions--everything that mattered. People just threw it away and laughed it off in my face. Same goes with the mistreatment. I was often teased, made fun of, beaten up for being different in my own way and never seemed to fit into anything. Even the normally "creepy" people rarely spoke to me. I really hated that time of my life. But things have changed. __________________ If you're lucky, I may give you a tiny sliver of my godliness.
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Manga artist Upcoming Legend Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Studio Motoko Posts: 537 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 5,863	Re: Rejection and mistreatment It makes you sick to your stomach I know that, Even being misled is bad too. I hated when a girl kept saying another guys name in my prences. I hated when others hurt others I wish I knew voodoo so I can punish them. __________________ http://www.animeonline.net/faq.php?f..._faqsignatures -- Hassun
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!The GunGrave of Trigun Banned Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 1,099 Thanks: 4 Thanked 23 Times in 22 Posts Credits: 21,401	Re: Rejection and mistreatment Well that never happened to me i was called things but i was popluar not cause of my looks because i was fat and thats why i was called things but lots of my friends because i was popular and i would be like what ever but I was popular because i was the funny guy and everybody would laugh and i did not take crap from nobody and i was strong.
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Astaroth Chtonian Slayer Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: In the deepest, darkest place of hell.....my heart Posts: 558 Thanks: 23 Thanked 46 Times in 44 Posts Credits: 31,155	Re: Rejection and mistreatment Yes....I have been mistreated during lat year when i found out that my ex was cheating on me...... And do you know what the first thing that came to my mind........revenge....I made his life as miserable as hell...by not even paying attention to him and pretending that he does not exist in my life....of course..some of it involved a little bit of violence..but what can he except when he decides to make the stupidest mistake in his life by cheating on a Russian chick....wrong move there buddy..and yes....pain did come.......but I did not dwell on it and moved on .....because I know that hanging on to the pain and memories will only make things much worse for you..... __________________ If you want me, come and claim me!
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Manga artist Upcoming Legend Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Studio Motoko Posts: 537 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 5,863	Re: Rejection and mistreatment Good for you, being cheated on by a mate is lowest thing on earth I hope you sued him and devoiced him. __________________ http://www.animeonline.net/faq.php?f..._faqsignatures -- Hassun
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Feb 05, 2008, 05:19 PM	#9 (permalink)
Manga artist Upcoming Legend Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Studio Motoko Posts: 537 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 5,863	Re: Rejection and mistreatment You could at least egg him to death nothing like throwing raw eggs on him. I hope you destoryed everything about him like love letters and photos, Why would anyone keep anything of a low down scum of the earth. It's best to destory or trash some thing of a bad past and start a new. __________________ http://www.animeonline.net/faq.php?f..._faqsignatures -- Hassun
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!Akura13 Banned Join Date: May 2007 Location: Wishing to go back to Japan... Posts: 638 Thanks: 9 Thanked 19 Times in 18 Posts Credits: 12,099	Re: Rejection and mistreatment ah, yes. All of those things has happened to me. My cousin being a (to put it nicely) a stupid meanie, been cheated on oh so many times, and rejected even more. What I do is just try to forget all about what happened and move on. I get rid of all the thing that reminded me of them and just try my best to lose all my thoughts of the person. Alos, I talk to my friends who help me out alot through my problems! Shoot, if it weren't for my friends, I would've gone crazy a very long time ago!
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Feb 05, 2008, 08:53 PM	#11 (permalink)
Manga artist Upcoming Legend Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Studio Motoko Posts: 537 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 5,863	Re: Rejection and mistreatment I felt good destorying my former friend's note and stuff. and it eraces the memories of them from your mind. __________________ http://www.animeonline.net/faq.php?f..._faqsignatures -- Hassun
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