Rejection and mistreatment - Page 2

WhiteWave14 · Feb 05, 2008, 09:01 PM

I guess you could say I've been mistreated, I have never understood why people do that and don't feel one lick of guilt in the end, I've had one boyfriend in my time and he had cheated on me, If it wasn't for my Mum I don't know what I would've done. though now that I think about it, It wouldn't have made me the person that I am today, It hurt once before but now it doesn't even hurt one lick, It's made me stronger.

I wish nobody has to go through what I had, though it has happened to alot of people, alot of people who didn't deserve it, but in the end I think it makes alot of people stronger, I've helped plenty of my friends that have gone through it and I know I will help even more. ^^

lebasiara · Feb 12, 2008, 10:55 AM

Well... I think everyone at least once has been rejected... for me it is not a big deal anymore,if someone does not accept me I am not going to do that person to accept me. But i am not going to cry a river and be like: "Oh it hurts so bad I cannot keep going with my life"... I mean... life goes on. People liking me or not, life goes on and it is in me to get up or to be down 'cos a rejection.
I am not a golden coin to be liked by everyone. ^_~

NevesElocin · Feb 12, 2008, 11:22 AM

Okay I've had someone hurt me very badly. Someone who I thought I loved. But it didn't permanently scar me or anything it just made me wary. I don't know why he did it. i'm still trying to figure that out. i'll ask him one day but i'm not wasting time trying to figure it out.

theblackmist · Feb 14, 2008, 12:22 PM

Some times I am mistreated. I am giving last chances to people who have sort of "ganged" up on me and gave me crap. Also Three guys in a row tricked me into thinking they loved me. Two of them are more then making up for it though, so i'm giving them each a last chance to be my friend.

I see no reason to refuse to give people chances but I won't unless I feel they both want it(or indifferent) and deserve it. My methods of how I handle things can be a bit strange though (like temporarly keeping myself away from the person).

P.R. Princess · Feb 14, 2008, 12:50 PM

yea of course everyone has at one point in there life.

Like in middle school i was going through alot of crap at home and i really didn't care that much aobut life and i got picked on cause alot of people thought i was like emo or goth.
so yea.
and they wont let me live it down. which sucks.
so yea. cuase im a really cool person now that i dont have all those problems. lol

ForgedinHell · Feb 14, 2008, 01:04 PM

following the relationship that i jsut got out of, rejection was the least of my problems.

I will say that i have been rejected and it was about the most devastating thing that i have ever had to go through. i did not, however, rid myself of this person. she remains a good friend of mine.

Feb 05, 2008, 09:01 PM	#12 (permalink)
WhiteWave14 Newbie Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Under your BED! OMNOMNOM eats your toes Posts: 54 Thanks: 29 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 3,554	Re: Rejection and mistreatment I guess you could say I've been mistreated, I have never understood why people do that and don't feel one lick of guilt in the end, I've had one boyfriend in my time and he had cheated on me, If it wasn't for my Mum I don't know what I would've done. though now that I think about it, It wouldn't have made me the person that I am today, It hurt once before but now it doesn't even hurt one lick, It's made me stronger. I wish nobody has to go through what I had, though it has happened to alot of people, alot of people who didn't deserve it, but in the end I think it makes alot of people stronger, I've helped plenty of my friends that have gone through it and I know I will help even more. ^^ __________________ Live for Today, Wait for Tomorrow, and think about Yesterday.
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Feb 12, 2008, 10:55 AM	#13 (permalink)
lebasiara Live and feel the music Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Here and there... Posts: 968 Thanks: 10 Thanked 15 Times in 14 Posts Credits: 15,121	Re: Rejection and mistreatment Well... I think everyone at least once has been rejected... for me it is not a big deal anymore,if someone does not accept me I am not going to do that person to accept me. But i am not going to cry a river and be like: "Oh it hurts so bad I cannot keep going with my life"... I mean... life goes on. People liking me or not, life goes on and it is in me to get up or to be down 'cos a rejection. I am not a golden coin to be liked by everyone. ^_~ __________________ Awesome sig Yasmine ^_^ I appreciate it thank you very much ^_^ $C:\Documents and Settings\MARA\My Documents\My Pictures\Anime room\sigs\music_sig1 mia ^_^.jpg$ I wish Mozart was alive...
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Feb 12, 2008, 11:22 AM	#14 (permalink)
NevesElocin ~The Mistress~ Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 699 Thanks: 14 Thanked 11 Times in 11 Posts Credits: 10,272	Re: Rejection and mistreatment Okay I've had someone hurt me very badly. Someone who I thought I loved. But it didn't permanently scar me or anything it just made me wary. I don't know why he did it. i'm still trying to figure that out. i'll ask him one day but i'm not wasting time trying to figure it out. __________________ My love for you only grows with time...I want to create something beautiful with you.
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Feb 14, 2008, 12:22 PM	#15 (permalink)
theblackmist Newbie Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 10 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 339	Re: Rejection and mistreatment Some times I am mistreated. I am giving last chances to people who have sort of "ganged" up on me and gave me crap. Also Three guys in a row tricked me into thinking they loved me. Two of them are more then making up for it though, so i'm giving them each a last chance to be my friend. I see no reason to refuse to give people chances but I won't unless I feel they both want it(or indifferent) and deserve it. My methods of how I handle things can be a bit strange though (like temporarly keeping myself away from the person). __________________ Your soul is mine.
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Feb 14, 2008, 12:50 PM	#16 (permalink)
P.R. Princess NalaMidnight Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 900 Thanks: 3 Thanked 17 Times in 16 Posts Credits: 14,170	Re: Rejection and mistreatment yea of course everyone has at one point in there life. Like in middle school i was going through alot of crap at home and i really didn't care that much aobut life and i got picked on cause alot of people thought i was like emo or goth. so yea. and they wont let me live it down. which sucks. so yea. cuase im a really cool person now that i dont have all those problems. lol __________________ ~GUNSLINGER~A7X=MIA~ ~ MYSPACE~AWESOME PLACE TO SAVE~ ~I give my heart and everything to my sailor~
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Feb 14, 2008, 01:04 PM	#17 (permalink)
ForgedinHell Newbie Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: somehwere Posts: 5 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 182	Re: Rejection and mistreatment following the relationship that i jsut got out of, rejection was the least of my problems. I will say that i have been rejected and it was about the most devastating thing that i have ever had to go through. i did not, however, rid myself of this person. she remains a good friend of mine. __________________ Created in the deepest recesses of hell. creation of the darkest minds. I am Forged In Hell
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