honestly, i know exactly what you mean. i didn't have to have 2 kids before i decided sex wasn't a social thing for me but it didn't(and still doesn't) mean much to me in the sense that if i'm in a relationship, i care about the person i'm in the relationship with because if i didn't i would be lieing to myself and i can't stand that so... yea... if they want it they can have it. however, i dont go around sleeping with random people which is probably why it's been nearly 3 and a half years since my last sexual encounter. that should be changeing when i get home though although i wouldn't be mad if it didn't because i'm head over heels for my girl already and i can wait as long as it takes for her to be ready. in any case this debate is looking a little one sided so yea... is there anyone who thinks sex isn't social anymore? i mean at least in society?