I have nothing against sex before marriage. Simply because I don't think a couple should have to prove they love each other through written vows.
Marriage isn't necessarily 'everlasting'.
Sex should be a decision kept between the two individuals. It has nothing to do with their parents.
I think that sex w/o marrage is fine if both partners are willing and if they use proper protection(condoms, birth control,ect.) and i dont belive that the parents hve any part in their child's sex life.
I don't see a problem with sex before marrige. Let's face it, nowdays sex is all about pleasure unless you are with your man/woman and then it's a bit more on the emotional level. As long as people can learn to use protection to stop the spread of STD's and/or not have sex if they have them, there shouldn't be a problem on a nonreligious level anyway.
@.@ my religion forbids strongly sex be4 marriage... and there are reasons to that...
Where do some orphans come from?
Why ppl throw Babies?
and say this couple had sex...and then one of the couple left... somthing like a one night stand... what would the other think? @.@
I see it this way: one is giving totally a very part of oneself... one is setting oneself heart, mind and emotions to that person... as well the other person is giving its heart to you... it is a great risk... but if you have the right person it is worthy it... that's why i'll suggest to wait til the commitment of marriage.... but now a days that does not seem like a great commitment because of the "solution" called "divorse"..... what a shame....
I think that sex before mariage is ok, but only if you're thinkin about staying with your partner, if the relationship is serious, I'm against one night stands... It's sick to give yourself away to a man you don't even know... If you despretly need sex there are other ways too, you know... :D
Sex before marriage is a very risky thing, in my opinion. It leads to STD's, pregnancy, unwanted commitment.. My main problem with this is the pregnancy part. It's just so wrong to me that a couple would have sex before they were married, or if they weren't truly in love.. because if the woman gets pregnant.. she is left with this baby. Granted, the man might love her.. but because they are young, or because they rushed into things.. they could easily break up. So when the baby is born, it doesn't have a mother AND a father to live with and look up to. And I think that's the worst thing.
My parents had sex when they were eighteen. And what a surprise I was to them. ^ ^ They got married.. but only because of me. Of course, they divorced three or four years later, only for me to end up living with my mother and visiting my father every other summer.
I love my life, but it could have been better with the both of them together. But things do happen for a reason. My little brother and sister were born.. and neither have the same mother or father as me. My sister is from my mom, and my brother is from my dad and his girl. So if my parents never split, I wouldn't have the siblings that I have.
But still, it affects me. I always wonder what it would be like to live in a happy home with both parents present. And a sibling from them both.. would they look exactly like me?
Little things like those is what couples should think about before having sex and risking everything. Condoms and birth control pills/patches help protect.. but it isn't one hundred percent certain.