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Thread: Sex Before Marriage

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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    Obviously its all based on the individual's perspective, besides, things like waiting until marriage keep changing over the years and it shouldnt but its up to you if you rather wait or not.

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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    All this is based on what you believe in... I believe in love!!! So with that said it should have a part in the decision you make... If you believe in waiting until you are married that is superb... It also let you know if your partner is truly in love with you... I say that because many ppl say they love you, but how many actually do or even know what it is.... You can say you love some1, but really isn't in love with them... I say you should wait... Wait until you know for sure you are ready & most time when you think you are ready you're not... 1nce you lose that innocence it's gone... So why not wait until you are married at least then you know that person in & out & they know you just the same... They are your best friend & lover...

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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    I do know that I did have sex before I even get marry. But when I do find some1 that I do have a relationship with I do end up telling that person about my past. However that person and I will have to discuss about this very topic. In the mean time I will probably never find som1 that I will get marry therefore I give up dating and falling in love all together for a reason that I was taken advantage of by 1 guy that I dated. But that was not my decision he actually force me into having sex. I was actually sexually abuse with this person and all other abuse that anyone can think of. So I really have a hard time trusting a guy.
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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by The White Wolf View Post
    But it is a disease reducer. Marriage is supposed to be monogamous.
    Key word. One of the fastest growing groups of HIV+ individuals is women, many of whom's husbands have been unfaithful, including with other men. Marriage on its own does nothing to reduce the spread of disease if one or both of the individuals doesn't honor the monogamy part.
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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    I personally believe it is wrong and it isn't. If you love the person and you KNOW that you are going to be with them forever, and you two are actually truly in love, I belive it is ok.

    If you are christian then yes according to the bible it is wrong. personally I refuse to believe a book that I consider hear say.

    I believe it is wrong though, if the person is not in love with that person and they just THNK they are, or if they are just messing around and being stupid.

    So for me it goes either way, it all depends on the situation with me.

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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by gren View Post
    Key word. One of the fastest growing groups of HIV+ individuals is women, many of whom's husbands have been unfaithful, including with other men. Marriage on its own does nothing to reduce the spread of disease if one or both of the individuals doesn't honor the monogamy part.
    It is still better than having sex before you're married. Because before you're married, you're un-official, and you're single so you can experiment with whomever you want. But when you're married, you're automatically limited to one partner to get intimate with. THUS reducing the threat of contracting and spreading HIV[+]. It's not guaranteed, but it's still a positive aspect.

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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by The White Wolf View Post
    It is still better than having sex before you're married. Because before you're married, you're un-official, and you're single so you can experiment with whomever you want. But when you're married, you're automatically limited to one partner to get intimate with. THUS reducing the threat of contracting and spreading HIV[+]. It's not guaranteed, but it's still a positive aspect.
    But that's what I'm saying. Marriage is pretty much unreliable as a disease reduction measure because too many people are unfaithful. If people want to run around having sex with whomever they please, marriage isn't likely to stop them. The type of people who remain monogamous in marriage are usually not the types to go "experimenting" in the first place.

    Also, you're looking at it from a developed country point of view. In the African nations hardest hit by STDs, where wives and women in general are truly viewed as second class citizens, and a man is expected, and almost encouraged to bed as many women as he sees fit, marriage does absolutely NOTHING to stop the spread of disease.
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    Re: Sex Before Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by gren View Post
    But that's what I'm saying. Marriage is pretty much unreliable as a disease reduction measure because too many people are unfaithful. If people want to run around having sex with whomever they please, marriage isn't likely to stop them. The type of people who remain monogamous in marriage are usually not the types to go "experimenting" in the first place.

    Also, you're looking at it from a developed country point of view. In the African nations hardest hit by STDs, where wives and women in general are truly viewed as second class citizens, and a man is expected, and almost encouraged to bed as many women as he sees fit, marriage does absolutely NOTHING to stop the spread of disease.
    =__+ You make marriage seem unfit and untrustworthy.

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