Should people who make the same mistakes over and over again be forgiven? - Page 3

Tagrestraumer · Feb 24, 2008, 03:41 AM

I won't. It's as simple as that. ( or not... )

People who make the same mistakes over and over again are people who don't learn and don't realize what their mistakes are. Yes, I think it's understandable for other people to forgive them but once they abuse other people's compassion about the issue then NO. You are not supposed to waste your time witnessing that particular person's mistake again and again.

But overall, I think it depends on how stupid the person is if he keeps forgiving the person about the same mistake. I mean, what if the person already commited 100th time on the mistake? Surely, you'd get tired of it.

Alondra · Feb 24, 2008, 10:08 AM

Someone who makes the same mistakes over and over again and has no sympathy at all for the situation. They ain't nothin and apparently neither are you if you let it slide. Why stick around to keep gettin hurt? Any person that stays in that type of relationship is an idiot! Sorry to be blunt, but yea why waste your time?

anime cyr · Feb 24, 2008, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Arrianna

If they keep doing it they aren't sorry so forgiving them is meaningless until they stop doing it. It's important to call people on that sort of behavior to because if you don't but keep going, "it's ok", then there is never any incentive for them to actually change.

actualy all depens on what they keped on doing wrong if it is somthing bad the yes lock the of if it somthing stupid an not big the really that would be your choise

*P.R. Princess* · Feb 24, 2008, 12:39 PM

well i say if you do it once then ok i forgive you
but do it 2 times and thats it. i dont go to 3 cuz
you should have learned it the first time.

Like with guys if they cheat on you or somthing you forgive them
they say they love you and stuff and they it didn't mean anything.
but if they do it twice then that just means they really dont care.

so yea

precious angel · Feb 24, 2008, 12:57 PM

If someone kept on making mastakes on purpose then I would problay won't forgive them, but they don't do it on pupose then I guess well i say i'll forgive them.If you do it once then ok I forgive you, but do it 2 times and thats it for me. I don't go the third time cause you should have learned it the first time.

i so agree with u so much i would tell them the same thing to get it threw their heads.lol....

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Savior007 · Feb 24, 2008, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxy

You know there are those kinds of people who mess up, does something to hurt you or anybody else and say they were soory and they wouldnt do the same shite again.
If you're the average compassionate human being who wants to be forgiven if you do something wrong, you'll be nice and forgiving and you'll forgive them.
Life goes on, and you find out that they've made the same mistake... again.
Since you believe in second chances you forgive them, again, this time giving them a stern warning.
But what do you calll those people who make the smae mistakes over and over again. Like they cant help themselves but let the negative side of their characteristics take them over completely.
So that's why i waNT TO HEAR FROM YOU,
What would you do if a person you know make the same mistakes/
Would you forgive them the same number of times, or lock them off completely?

you ever heard of the boy who cried wolf? Well me been a newbie to this site i have an answer been a professionial novice of the anime world online and that is after the second time heck no this is only a 2 shot world if youre lucky to fire off that 2nd bullet most people don't get that chance

precious angel · Feb 24, 2008, 01:10 PM

it's just like this poem. Forgiveness is not something we do for other people we do it for our selves to get well and to move on with our lives.

Redragon495 · Feb 28, 2008, 07:46 PM

After the third time I would stop forgiving them. Like most people even a law in GA(Self-defense law you have to let the person hit you three time before you can do anything) you have to give the person 3 chances to stop before you can inore them or hit them back. And about the GA law thats what I heard I'm not really sure if its true.

Feb 24, 2008, 03:41 AM	#23 (permalink)
Tagrestraumer Newbie Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 2 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 85	Re: Should people who make the same mistakes over and over again be forgiven? I won't. It's as simple as that. ( or not... ) People who make the same mistakes over and over again are people who don't learn and don't realize what their mistakes are. Yes, I think it's understandable for other people to forgive them but once they abuse other people's compassion about the issue then NO. You are not supposed to waste your time witnessing that particular person's mistake again and again. But overall, I think it depends on how stupid the person is if he keeps forgiving the person about the same mistake. I mean, what if the person already commited 100th time on the mistake? Surely, you'd get tired of it.
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Alondra Newbie Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: downtowm minneapolis Posts: 20 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,379	Re: Should people who make the same mistakes over and over again be forgiven? Someone who makes the same mistakes over and over again and has no sympathy at all for the situation. They ain't nothin and apparently neither are you if you let it slide. Why stick around to keep gettin hurt? Any person that stays in that type of relationship is an idiot! Sorry to be blunt, but yea why waste your time?
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P.R. Princess NalaMidnight Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 910 Thanks: 3 Thanked 18 Times in 17 Posts Credits: 14,781	Re: Should people who make the same mistakes over and over again be forgiven? well i say if you do it once then ok i forgive you but do it 2 times and thats it. i dont go to 3 cuz you should have learned it the first time. Like with guys if they cheat on you or somthing you forgive them they say they love you and stuff and they it didn't mean anything. but if they do it twice then that just means they really dont care. so yea __________________ ~ MYSPACE~AWESOME PLACE TO SAVE~
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precious angel Newbie Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 3 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 78	If someone kept on making mastakes on purpose then I would problay won't forgive them, but they don't do it on pupose then I guess well i say i'll forgive them.If you do it once then ok I forgive you, but do it 2 times and thats it for me. I don't go the third time cause you should have learned it the first time. i so agree with u so much i would tell them the same thing to get it threw their heads.lol..... Last edited by LenMiyata; Feb 24, 2008 at 07:07 PM.
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Redragon495 Tournaments Won: 1 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Rincon GA USA Posts: 148 Thanks: 4 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 3,690	Re: Should people who make the same mistakes over and over again be forgiven? After the third time I would stop forgiving them. Like most people even a law in GA(Self-defense law you have to let the person hit you three time before you can do anything) you have to give the person 3 chances to stop before you can inore them or hit them back. And about the GA law thats what I heard I'm not really sure if its true. __________________ I sEe YoU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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