princesslady

i dont know if i spelled it wrong but i tried. what im tryng to ask is, should you wait till your married for sex or should you do it when you think your ready? we disscussed this topic at my school a while back and me and my friends had a arguement about it today. half of them say wait while the other half say if you think your ready. i really dont care to be honest. so can you all tell me what your opinon is? thanks a bunch!

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SasuraiHell

your title just made me forgot what word is now..., hmm., anyway.

i've herd MANY MANY people say they wouldnt do drugs, drink alcohol..., and years later when they've grown?, guess what , they're doing them every week XD.,

the same can go for this topic, peopl say they can wait, but how many teen pregnacies happen a month??,

myself, i guess it really depends, it depends if i really love the person, which i know i should restrain myself, so, i will "try", im not giving an absolute here, if you do resist then i'll give you half of my back points( a joke, i love my little points).

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princesslady

ver well said. but i cant decide. i think i should wait but knowing me i get caught up in moments. and plus, some people cant. then they end up pregnant and regret it. is this a religious thing by the way?

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SasuraiHell

hmm,. in certain religions if not all of em(b/c i dont know yet), have this principal that you shouldnt untill you are married, otherwise its a big sin .
unless thats just to keep them in check, im not totaly sure why religion is stepping in on sexual grounds(namely the marrage thing)

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HieisLove

I wanted to wait until marriage, but something happened and I ended up having sex for the first time...............

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princesslady

really!!!!!? well you must have had a good reason!! hope you dont regret!!!

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_gwenibe_

Well i think that if you both love each other then why is it so vital to wait until you are married? I mean you should love each other the same before and after marrige. Is it just a tradition or prehaps the problem is, is what happens when a child comes along?

of course love sumtimes has nothing to do with it....

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Spymonk

This is a very widespread topic if u just wanna know if u have or should wait Yes wait the better choice for yourself and your future.
Reasons i say so.
1.It gives u time to think and plan your life if u want and not live on the edge never knowing what might happen next.
2.Saving yourself from all the known and unseen deceases we have floating around ppl don't even know if they have Aids if they don't check with the doctors and simptoms only show after a couple of years.
3.Having sex say with someone u love is fine but then u break up and u meet someone else and u feel u love hime to and the next and the next how many boyfriends does one girl have before she gets married Wow it can a number and having sex with them all makes u My opinion a little cheap and easy.
4.Religion in some cases and community playes a bog roll aswell because sexual misconduct and abnormal behavior is link to the sexual things ppl do in ways and means most ppl don't realy understand.I dont 100% understand aswell all i know their is loots more seriousness to the sexual behavior of humans than we know.

So yeah ppl make their choices everyday and some turn out bad the thing is we don't know to who[whatever] it might happen next so do u wanna throw the dice and see what u get. I don't wanna thanks i am happy not getting it.
Ok i think about it too but it is not worth it.

U can get all the advice and love in the world but when the situation present itself u will be alone in choosing what u do ....

HolderOfTheDarkChalice

it selibent or selibency depending on how you use it.
but i think sex should wait i mean no one has ever died from not having sex

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Casben

The word is celibacy, spelled with a 'c' people! And I personally will try and wait until i feel mature enough to handle the potential consequences! I would not like to have a child before I can handle it! You might say you can use protection, but what if it fails!? (Happened to a freind's brother!) And I wouldn't want to be unprepared for a child! So i'll try and wait!

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Rave_Grip

Sex is a feeling for pleasure, which needs to be controlled untill the time is right. It's a strong temptation for lust ... anyways ...

You should wait untill marriage. It's fine if you do have sexual relationships with your partner ONLY if you're married. If you have sex early, you are vulnerable to unseen and harmfull diseases.

And for example, HieisLove had sex early, she is hurt physically, mentally, and the trust of her parents is broken.

So it does hurt people who are blood related to that person. You should not listen to anyone, even if your own family encourages you.

Even though you love that person immensely, and/or if you're in depression, it is best that you get advise.
A person has to decide about his/her and his/her partner's life and a temptation for love.

Even though some religions contradict pre-mature sex, it is not because they're just some religions, it is because thay have said that for a reason.

Even though you had a safe sex with the partner, it is NOT 100 % safe. It will harm the person mentally, and the girl bothe mentally and physically.

By the time you are married, your mind has grown and you are ready to take such a challenge. But since you're a teenager, you still desire for more, and it does ruin theur lives and they become addicted.

pre-mature sex is harmful and painful for both sides of the families, since the parents trust is broken.

If someone has any other questions or problems with my reply, tell me and I will clear your doubts.

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