i've noticed the differences between the fights that girls have and the fights that boys have. Boys tend to be more physcal in the way they relieve anger, and sometimes it becomes extreme(i.e. very serious injuries) but girls are nasty in other ways.
Of course I'm not speaking about all girls, but some are really cruel. They spread rumors, ignore, lie and other things that aren't what you normally think of when you hear the word bully. They just do it differently
Which is worse? I can't tell
and about the attention aspect of violence. Perhaps some of these children never recieve attention unless their in trouble, possibly from getting in fights. Just a thought.