Mechazawa

These are current day high school kids we're talking about here, they don't even know who Don Won is.


No no no, getting married just to have sex is just as dumb as having sex without protection. Like tsurara said blood tests don’t just happen when people are getting married.

I haven't been in high school for a while now, but back when I was in grade school a 7th grade girl and an 8th grade girl where both pregnant. Then in high school I couldn't keep track of it. There where 5 girls at my graduation that where knocked up one of them was the Val Victorian 7 months along (boy that’s a story right there.). I went to a rural grade and high school; I would imagine the pregnancy rate would be higher the closer you got to cities. (I could be wrong on that though.)

I know what I want to say to this but I don't want an infraction. So I'll only lol at what I'm thinking about.


Like IlikeApples said marriage isn't a barrier that will protect you from diseases OR getting pregnant (that’s another thread, but just because you get married doesn't mean you should start having babies either.)

Condoms
STD blood screenings
Birth control pills
The morning after pill
Dental dams
Diaphragms
Spermicidal foam/jelly
The today sponge
Some bullet looking thing that I can't remember the name of right now.
Condoms for women (Did these ever make it to market?)
Some odd little thing that looks like a twist tie off a loaf of bread that they used to show on TV that a woman’s gynecologist inserts to help avoid pregnancy
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In the end kids shouldn't be having sex, heck I know some people that are well beyond the legal age that shouldn't be having sex. I know it happens though all you can do is hope that the kid listens to there parents and the parents have more between their ears than soft padding that stops their skull from caving in. The kids should be learning about stuff like this from their parents anyway and not those brain washing abstinence programs that travel from school to school.

I'm not knocking waiting until your married to have sex, but only getting married to have sex is hella stupid.

Finally, in this day and age you can't be too careful. It wouldn't be a bad idea to get a blood screen every time you get a new BF or GF, the both of you can go together. It may kill the spontaneity of the situations, but crotch rot will do that too.
All in all you have to respect sex; it’s not something you do to kill an hour. People fight and kill one another because of sex, it’s a powerful weapon and it’s also something very beautiful. But always remember to be safe, and wait until your at least 18. At that age you can be in a better position to own up to your actions.

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Akura never lets those sort of people get ot you, i know they dont but if they ever do, your better than them having sex at a young age is riddiculus and more childish than not having it! Your right there wrong there is nothing to it.

dude101

i'll take it that u really don't know what that is for.. i believe they call it a tampon. and i hate to see that used as some sort of protection, wouldn't work well if ya ask me..

as for the virginity issue with society and chick and all..

the way i've seen things these days is that chick are usually put into 2 main groups. the shrewd's or the tramp's. well generally in the teenage bracket anyway.. but to be honest, i can't see how being a virgin has anything to do with ur social standing, i mean sure everyone talks about sex as a common topic of interests, and for use teenage's, thats something that is thought about regularly. but to me sex, and being a virgin is ur own person decision and privacy, no body else has an opinion in it.

but when it comes down to the act of losing it, or having sex in any matter, u need to ask urself an important question. that is, does it feel right?.. are u ready?.

most times, that i've known, friends have lost theirs because they wanted to look cool, or where just, how could i say this nicely, overly sexually aware of their needs...

but in any case like everyone has said here, don't be a fool and wrap ur tool..
advice we should all take.

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Inuruto

Like many people had already posted your virginity is your business & if you want to hold on to that quality then go right ahead... And the people who make fun of you for keeping that virtue I bet most of them still wish that they have... With that being said I heard from many girls that their "first time" wasn't all that great anyways... ^_^

So just wait until you are ready & play it safe!!! It is your body & only you know when you are ready & if you have to ask yourself that, than most times you are not...

I just don't like it when a girl loses their virginity to a totally penis head... I may be wrong for that, but that just fires me up =>_<= ... lol

Joe Mage

Sex is a very big step, it's a union between two people who love each other very deeply. It's not 'bout marriage, marriage is jus' a symbol representin' a union, one can have that union w/o bein' married. U should do as u feel, though, and if waitin' for marriage is what u want, then by all means go for it. U'll know when the time is right for u ta have sex, no one else will. Don' let anyone pressure u inta doin' what u don' wanna do. There's nothin' wrong wit bein' a virgin.

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that is true you don't need to be pressured into something you don't want to do.I myself am waiting for the right girl to come along before I do something that I might regret later in life.
so I agree with joe mage wait if you want, it will be all the better when you are in the arms of the only one you want to be with.

fireandice

While I'll agree that most young people need to wait you also need to look at the cold hard facts. Very few people will ever have just one partner in there life. It's almost impossiable. Not saying that it can't happen but there are so may unseen things that can happen in a persons life. Now I'm not saying just go out and have sex with everybody. Use your head and think about it carefully before you do. But don't be under the disillusion that there will be only one person that you will ever have sex with in your life no matter if you wait untill you marry or not.

HolderOfTheDarkChalice

virginity is a myth something parents tell there kids about to keep them from having sex and seeing how much pleasure enjoyment and all those other taboos , this is what most think of it myself being a virgin is something you shouldn't play around with because
once its gone you NEVER get it back and then everything else is just meaningless sex.

teen pregnancy's and that list of things that one person made it all comes from
not being smart about it you should really wait till you get married but most get rid of
it foolishly there have been a few kids on here that have had abortions which is
a awfull thing to go through becuase they chose the wrong person to be with or
were just board and wanted to mess around.

i think you should wait till your marroed or atleast till you can
comprehend the back lash of having sex the good and bad points
but thats just me

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Mechazawa

*Shaking head* *rolling eyes*

Wow, I mean wow. How you got that from my description is beyond me, or they make very small tampons in the land down under. Its about the size of a suppository shaped like a 9mm bullet, or maybe a .38 round. They sell them right next to THe Today Sponge, I just can't remeber there name..

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princesslady

Well duh it matters. Why would you give your body to someone at a young age and waste your innocence on the illumination of what your first time could have been like? Every girl dreams her first time as special and romantic, not in the back seat of a hummer. Virginity is the best gift you can give some. It shows respect, trust, love, passion and all other mixed emotions. Don;t waste that on a one night stand with a guy your in lust with.

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Shodokan

I remember this girl was crying about giving her virginity to her boyfriend. She found out he was an asshole and said she could never get it back. I thought she was completely insane for getting worked up over that.

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