Thread: Virginity, Does It Even Matter?

Like many people had already posted your virginity is your business & if you want to hold on to that quality then go right ahead... And the people who make fun of you for keeping that virtue I bet most of them still wish that they have... With that being said I heard from many girls that their "first time" wasn't all that great anyways... ^_^

So just wait until you are ready & play it safe!!! It is your body & only you know when you are ready & if you have to ask yourself that, than most times you are not...

I just don't like it when a girl loses their virginity to a totally penis head... I may be wrong for that, but that just fires me up =>_<= ... lol

Sex is a very big step, it's a union between two people who love each other very deeply. It's not 'bout marriage, marriage is jus' a symbol representin' a union, one can have that union w/o bein' married. U should do as u feel, though, and if waitin' for marriage is what u want, then by all means go for it. U'll know when the time is right for u ta have sex, no one else will. Don' let anyone pressure u inta doin' what u don' wanna do. There's nothin' wrong wit bein' a virgin.

Sex is a very big step, it's a union between two people who love each other very deeply. It's not 'bout marriage, marriage is jus' a symbol representin' a union, one can have that union w/o bein' married. U should do as u feel, though, and if waitin' for marriage is what u want, then by all means go for it. U'll know when the time is right for u ta have sex, no one else will. Don' let anyone pressure u inta doin' what u don' wanna do. There's nothin' wrong wit bein' a virgin

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that is true you don't need to be pressured into something you don't want to do.I myself am waiting for the right girl to come along before I do something that I might regret later in life.
so I agree with joe mage wait if you want, it will be all the better when you are in the arms of the only one you want to be with.

While I'll agree that most young people need to wait you also need to look at the cold hard facts. Very few people will ever have just one partner in there life. It's almost impossiable. Not saying that it can't happen but there are so may unseen things that can happen in a persons life. Now I'm not saying just go out and have sex with everybody. Use your head and think about it carefully before you do. But don't be under the disillusion that there will be only one person that you will ever have sex with in your life no matter if you wait untill you marry or not.

virginity is a myth something parents tell there kids about to keep them from having sex and seeing how much pleasure enjoyment and all those other taboos , this is what most think of it myself being a virgin is something you shouldn't play around with because
once its gone you NEVER get it back and then everything else is just meaningless sex.

teen pregnancy's and that list of things that one person made it all comes from
not being smart about it you should really wait till you get married but most get rid of
it foolishly there have been a few kids on here that have had abortions which is
a awfull thing to go through becuase they chose the wrong person to be with or
were just board and wanted to mess around.

i think you should wait till your marroed or atleast till you can
comprehend the back lash of having sex the good and bad points
but thats just me

Originally Posted by dude101

i'll take it that u really don't know what that is for.. i believe they call it a tampon. and i hate to see that used as some sort of protection, wouldn't work well if ya ask me...

*Shaking head* *rolling eyes*

Wow, I mean wow. How you got that from my description is beyond me, or they make very small tampons in the land down under. Its about the size of a suppository shaped like a 9mm bullet, or maybe a .38 round. They sell them right next to THe Today Sponge, I just can't remeber there name..

Well duh it matters. Why would you give your body to someone at a young age and waste your innocence on the illumination of what your first time could have been like? Every girl dreams her first time as special and romantic, not in the back seat of a hummer. Virginity is the best gift you can give some. It shows respect, trust, love, passion and all other mixed emotions. Don;t waste that on a one night stand with a guy your in lust with.