tsurara

I still fail to understand how teenage pregnancy is support for the argument that virginity is important and we should all be virgins until we're married.

If anything, it's support for the argument that we need to be putting more money and effort into adequate sexual education (and education in general) for teenagers who are apparently determined to be sexually active anyway.

dark angel swordsman

I don't think it really matters. when the time comes around, then it might matter slightly more. If you're only in your early teens such as myself and many other of this forum i have no idea why you should even think of topics like that. I mean, no one in my school talks about it at all...

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Miroku4444

Marriage is just a piece of paper. As long as you truly love someone(would kill for them), ready for the consequences, and want to give yourself totally to them, then thats what matters. If your worried about diseases get tested, you dont need a marriage license to get tested.

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P.R. Princess

To me it dosn't matter.
I see it as something special that should be cherished.
Not flaunted around.

No one should make fun of someone because of that. That is something special.

For me I am saving till marraige.
I wont let anyone get in the way of that.

And kids should be able to get past it. I mean it is also nasty to be sleeping around with pople and then girls end up getting pregneant or they both get an std. yea no one will want to be with them then
So I say why risk it. Its pointless.

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equinn

ok well i am quite populer as u put it im known by everone in my school ^^ ( not good alot of the times tho...)

but im still a virgin i havent even kissed a guy in real yet..... and im near 15 years of bloodly age ... and no im not ugly ¬_¬

but like theres girls my year like have sex every week end with guys they just met and theres also a girl in my year who makes people pay for a blowjob ... ( shes such a whore...)

and not many poeple like her and shes no virgin ...

so theres no reson why people who are still virgins cant be populer cos like i am... im known by too many ....( the whole bloody school damn..)

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Namida Goddess

I actually respect women more if they are a virgin because they still have some dignity. I am going to practice abstinence until marriage. That is just how I was brought up. Besides when a girl loses her virginity, especially if she has slept with more than one guy she is considered promiscuous. It is the other way around for guys though. They are a "stud" if they have had sex before. I don't think of either sex in a good way if they are willing to just throw away their virginity.

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tsurara

And you think that's a good thing that we should play into?

Well, I for one, am a HUGE skank by your terms. And I didn't even kiss a boy until I was 19! Amazing how that works... and how willing you are to judge other people on the basis of a completely natural biological drive.

For the longest time women also bound their feet. If they didn't, they were undesireable in marriage and low class. Since that was the prevailing train of thought: it must therefore be true!

Our big feet have already doomed us: we might as well all sleep around!

Miroku4444

You say that because you haven't done it. Once you have(A good experience), you'll be singing a different tune.

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Pentdragon

Virginity is a symbol, it's value is whatever you put on it (be it religious faith or true love). On the other hand, you can only give it to one person...

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