The people who put their OWN parents/grand parents into institutions are irresponsible and thankless. I mean The Old People have worked hard, and I mean really hard to give us comfort and what not... and we put them into institutions? That's cruel isn't it- it's like disposing-them-because-we-are-so-ignorant-and-disrespectful thinking. Take care of them, they deserve to rest and watch their siblings grow and they have the right to expect a good and comfy care in their old ages. Understandable.