alright, Bluewolf. thanks for the advise, I appreciate it. Later!
In my opinion that's a good and bad idea. It's good because it means that someone will truly be worth your time however it's bad because most likely since you've got such a barrier when it drops it's going to weird for you and you might even feel like you've fallen in love.
I've been dumped/denied so many times i can't count them all. I'm not going to lie it hurts every time and it takes some time to get over it but the pain doesn't last forever though. I don't regret any time I've put myself out there to get hurt because I know if I hadn't I would regret it all and wonder what it would be like if I hadn't.
I'm doing me though, you need to do you. If doing you means keeping your barrier up than that's great but if you think you'll be happier if you take it down (even if you just take a brick off your wall) than take it down. No matter what anyone says you just need to do you and make yourself happy.
Your probably right about the pain being worth it in the end. In fact, I know your right. I just can't seem to open up no matter what. The boy that decides he really likes me is going to have to break down my barrier to get to my heart.
Really??? Honestly people get hurt and sometimes they hurt others without even meaning to. When I get hurt sure I'll spend a day being sad panda about it all however after that it's time to move on. The pain is all worth it in the end. That's all just my opinion. Your going to do whatever you want to do. It's just something to think about.
No. I don't have anyone special. I push people away to much. I'm afriad to get to close becuase it creates an opening to be hurt. And I don't like to be hurt.
Awww, thank you. It wont be perfect but that's okay because perfection isn't needed. Do you have anyone special.
That is wonderful. I'm glad that you mean so much to eachother. Such feelings are rare. I hope that you two have a happy life together and that it is everything you dreamed it would be.
I'm glad . A delayed wedding is fine. He means the world to me and I mean the world to him so nothing wrong with waiting.
My spring break went pretty good. Sorry to hear about what happened to your wedding plans. I hope you and your fiance get to have everything you wanted.
I was a senior in high school last year. Until just here recently I was planning on be married by this time next year and I would go to college (if I did both at the same time either my education or the wedding would suffer and I didn't want that) however due to the economy my fiance and I both agreed that we would just wait until after we are down with college to get married. Long story short I don't get spring break . So hows your spring break going?