You are right though trust means more to mean then anything. My problem being if we got back together it wont be the same, He would be a jerk, His parents would shun me, his friends would be asses toward me, he would hold everything against me, plus I don't want to leave but will have to and hope that him and I could come and stay here cause everyone I lost friends and family are coming back into my life again and I don't want to loss them again... I wish he would just talk to me and understand were I'm coming from...
Yeah I guess so but still would feel weird and truthfully I can't date anyone right now cause I still have feelings for Zach. Plus he wants to work things out and I am thinking that over cause with him and I its just complicated right now...Well he never cheated on me I kind cheated on him by kissing my ex so yeah that's why he has trust issues with me so I guess I can't really blame him.. Yes he has been a jerk but I don't have it in me to be mean to him. Yeah I can be a bitch when I wanna be and give someone a taste of there own med. but I just don't have it in me to hurt him...
Honestly I can't give you advice on the dating Jacob thing because personally I've dated a lot of friends and the break up never hurt our friendship. If you guys can both agree that in your relationship your friendship will always come first than it should be fine.
Out of all of your exes I think being only friends with Zach is a hugest mistake. I'd tell him to shove it. First off it sounds like he cheated on you is worried you'll cheat on him, honestly if a guy told me I couldn't hang out with a guy in fear I'll cheat I'd end it because you need trust even more than you need honesty in a relationship. Secondly he sounds very manipulating. Thirdly he sounds like the type of guy I'd be asking to get hit from just so that I could falcon punch him just so he'd get the memo to stop being a complete jerk.
Zach said if I want him back I can't talk to Jacob and idk..Zach likes testing me he don't trust me I know he doesn't have to after what I did but still I wish he would just get over it! It really is bad he gets upset and yells and called me a bitch and I don't deserve that..
yeah..I do still have feeling for him and he wants us to work and get back together..I just don't want to get into a rocky relationship right now. He wants to be just friends and get along before we date again. Even now him and I are not together and just friends and its complicated. Yes I like Jacob but he is just to good of a friend to loss so I wouldn't want to date him cause all the guys I date that are good friends I end up losing cause I dated them and it don't seem to work out. The only ex I talk to is Zach right now cause he wants to make things work. He thinks I am going to leave him for Jacob if we date and I'm going to cheat on him and lie to him about Jacob but I'm not I told him Jacob and I are just friends and my friend Chelsey is trying to set Jacob and I together. Jacob is just a real nice guy to talk to a good friend someone there were I can get a good guys opinion on stuff and to god of a friend to loss.
Honestly I would just ignore Zach. His jealousy isn't worth your time. You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, now my ex is I guess man? Jealous? about me maybe taken by someone else >.> him and I end up talking and now I think he wants me back and I really don't want to get into a rocky relationship plus I haven't been stressed I'm talking about Zach btw.. I talked to Jacob last night it was so really nice. ^^ lol he lept making me laugh and we was on the phone for a hr talking lol.
I agree, you need someone new in your romantic life. Plus country boys are always the best choice . Hopefully everything will work out for you guys.
Well his parents don't want us together and I feel like he is just messing and playing with my heart so I am done with him. I guess so I am taken by a very sweet country boy named Jacob he is sweet and really down to earth and we talk everyday and night for like 2 hrs straight.